Is there any particular habit about your partner you dislike?

Hi Anamika, I feel, No man is always Perfect..So there can be drawbacks..Besides this I always look for Plus points in partner and ignore rest. And if I dislike any habbit then straight away I like to tell and belive in resolving conflicts... In response to discussion, I find some drawbacks in partner:- 1.she is not open Minded and always keeps things in mind. 2.She seldom disclose what she dislike. 3.She wants me to recognise what she want without telling. 4.She never directly disclose what she accepts so that I can think on that issue how to find any outcome. 5.she is very moody and changes as like atmosphere's summer,winter and rainy seasons.ie. like rainy season she gives lecture, some time or like summer she gets hot temper but mostly appers as Winter doing her work and talk less while doing her work. Finally I want my partner to speak with me for her difficulties to have life long relationship. Thanks for discussion of this topic.

Hi Anamika, You have said very rightly that love is blind, That why we accept our partner as they are with all their good and bad qualities. I have been married from very long time almost 28 years but I always dislike one quality of my wife. My wife always speak against the peoples with out understanding the purpose?she is one who did not easily agree with others, she always think other peoples are selfish.

No a big one But honestly, I generally try to go and see a shrink too in every moment.

oh, you must not be married for tooooo long. you will find after 27 years there will be plenty of things! like, snoring, for one, being set in his ways, and many many more, i just don't want to scare you.. but, you will still love him very much regardless,, just enjoy what you have now-not everything lasts forever!!!!

I dislike that he is usually very cranky when he first wakes up! No need to take it out on me.

I hate it when she is angry - it feels like world war III when she's angry. Other than that she is sometimes blind and defensive, eventhough it is already her fault - I end up saying the word 'sorry'. But oh well, I guess I just loved her too much.