5 Qualities
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
United States
January 18, 2008 9:31am CST
I just got done listening to my radio station, and 2 of the guys came up with a list of 5 qualities they think the woman needed in a man. Then she read her own list. They matched pretty well.
This got me thinking about the most important qualities for myself, that I would look for in a man. Here's my list (I am taking some from her-because I guess we feel the same way! lol):
1. Loyal/Honest/Trustworthy
2. NonSmoker/Light(social)drinker
3. Does NOT have to be rich, but has to be able to support himself.
4. Has a sense of humor
5. Good Hygiene (has to be clean)
**An accent would be a plus ;P lol**
What's your list (guys and girls)?
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13 responses
@leeesa (884)
• United States
19 Jan 08
My list is quite extensive:
1. Must be funny and able to make me laugh
2. Faithful/loyal/honest/trustworthy
3. Has to make more money than I do (most men have a complex if the woman makes more money)
4. Must be affectionate (but not smothering)
5. Must be spontaneous and adventurous
6. Must be independent
7. Must be financially responsible
8. Must be GIB ;)
9. Cannot smoke
10. Must like baseball more than football! lol
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
20 Jan 08
LOL! Hey you know what they say "the right man for you IS out there...you just gotta have patience!!!" lol.
That is a lot of stuff...but a lot of good stuff!!! =P Nice on #8 by the way! lol
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@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
25 Apr 08
mine would be
1. loyal/honest/trustworthy
2. good sense of humor
3. tall
4. has small eyes
5. has a good hair
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
28 Apr 08
tall! hehe. Yeah I would at least want the guy to be taller than me, but height wouldn't really be a big necessity. I mean...I don't want a guy that's 6'' shorter than me or anything. I just mean...a tiny bit shorter wouldn't be terrible.
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Defeniatly good ones! I think if the guy doesn't want to spend time with you, and doesn't love you...he should get the boot!!! lol
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
1. understanding
2. good listener
3. sence of humor
4. good hygiene
5. matured
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Oh yeah, a good listener is important! And a mature guy with a sense of humor! Defeniatly important! =)
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@dta_kitty (191)
• India
19 Jan 08
Well I certainly believe that there are a lot more than 5.I have always wanted and found in my guy that he is.
1.Faithful/Genuine/Honest/Loving.
2.No bad habits.
3.Knows to manage with what is available.
4.Can make me gasp for breath (making me laugh so much)
5.Spends quality time with me.
Got them all. :)
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
19 Jan 08
You are lucky to have found a guy with all those good qualities!!! I am jealous and I hope I can be as lucky as you some day!!
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
25 Apr 08
Isn't it funny how our list changes...When I was young he had to be rich, gorgeous and wildly sexy. I've grown up and re-done that list several times. Now, it's:
Honest and Faithful
Decent and Loving
Have a Sense of Humor
Able to Weather a Storm
Able to Support himself
I guess the outside is somewhat important but the inside is much more important to me. I've seen some really hot guys that need to be in a dog pound b/c they are such dogs.
**AT PEACE WITHIN**
~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@Darkwing (21583)
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18 Jan 08
I'm afraid I would need far more than five qualities in my man, but I'll try to condense them down into perhaps five groups. :)
1. Honesty/Loyalty/Integrity.
2. Compassion/Understanding/Supportive/Encouraging.
3. Open Minded, with the ability to hold a witty
conversation in not just our own company but the
company of both of our friends and acquaintances
and newly introduced acquaintances.
4. A sense of adventure...love of the outdoors,
Nature, and the Elements and also, an interest in
the history of the Ancients.
5. A sense of responsibility, in maturity but at the
same time, young at heart, and fun-loving.
Not a lot really! ha ha ha. Of course, I would have to fulfill all those requirements too, in the hope that we would keep the same faith in each other.
Brightest Blessings.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Great qualities! I really like Number 5! I'd want a guy who is mature and young at hear too! He knows how far he can goes with stuff, and knows when to stop! =) And he's fun! yay! =P
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
28 Apr 08
My list of five would be:
1. The first is as you listed--loyal, honest, Trustworthy.
2. Has to be able to support himself.
3. Good Hygiene would be a must for me.
4. Has to be able to laugh at himself.
5. Not as important as the others but be romantic.
I think that most women look for the similar traits in a man but they also have a few differences that fulfill what they themselves are looking for personally.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
28 Apr 08
Yeah I would like him to be romantic also, fun too! lol. But I'm not sure I would count it as one of my top 5. It might be part of my top 10 though!!
I defeniatly would want someone who could laugh at themselves too. I tend to laugh when things do go so right for people =P
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
18 Jan 08
My list, is actually the man I found.
1. Loyal/Honest/Trustworty
2. Great sense of humor
3. Not rich, but has a very good and honorable career
4. Adventurous, loves to do things spur of the moment
5. Loves the outdoors
Whatever your 'list' if you are lucky enough to find the man that fits, grab him and don't let him go. And remember ladies, looks aren't everything, even the best looking men age, some just better than others, but if you can hold a conversation on a daily basis, when those looks fade, it won't be an issue.
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
18 Jan 08
What a great list! And it is wonderful you found the guy that fits them all! Thank you very much for the great message!
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@r_yuen (332)
• Indonesia
10 Jul 08
Hi Lily, long time I haven't reply to any of your discussion. This one is good. Okay, here is my list :
1. Mentally & Spiritually healthy (the most important)
2. Integrity (she do what she said)
3. Honest
4. Matured in the way of thinking & Independent
5. Good Hygiene (agree with you. :) has to be clean)
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Really good qualities!! Cleanliness is really important! lol. I don't think i would want to be with a guy who couldn't keep himself nice and clean/healthy.
@Buttercup26 (164)
• India
18 Jan 08
Well...The list of 5 qualities that I have always wanted and found in my guy are:
1. Loyal
2. Humorous (He can make me laugh at any given time)
3. Pampers me.
4. Movie buff
5. Cleanliness Freak!
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
19 Jan 08
You found the man of your dreams? Yay! :) lucky =P lol
Yeah I like movies too, so I would hope my guy does too. Pampers You! LUUUUCKY! lol
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@martontanswerquests (63)
• Argentina
25 Apr 08
I think women think a man may have the following qualities:
1_ Responsible.
2_ Comprehensive.
3_ Inteligent.
4_ Handsome.
5_ Have good feelings and thoughts.
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@digerati (286)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
hello lily,
5 qualities i would like a girl to have:
1. common sense, for decision-making and conversation
2. beauty, inside and out, physical and non-physical
3. cleanliness, inside and out,
4. ethics, this is by standard
5. honest, trigger for trusting.
of course, that is ideal,
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Those are defeniatly good qualities! I think honesty is defeniatly one of the most favored qualities in a partner!