lets say a girl cuddles on you but shes not that pretty
By babygirlmd15
@babygirlmd15 (22)
United States
January 18, 2008 11:05pm CST
hey guys i just want to know ur at a party and this girl not that pretty and a little over weight and she sits closer to u and she seems pretty cool and then ur arms touch and then after a while she crosses her leg and it toughes your leg and then she finaly lays her head on her sholder what do you do what would u say
2 responses
@zenmachado (1617)
• United States
19 Jan 08
umm that would be like a gotta be there situation..
For example what you do you mean by "not that pretty"? Does that mean that she is pretty, but not much.
That would mean that if she is attractive to you, then fine.
But also, a girl can be cute and your still not into her having her head on you...
Or I guess it would also depend on the preference of the guy.. if he likes bigger ladies.. then I guess it would be different from one who likes em thin..
And drinks or no drinks? Cause that makes a difference too... :D
@babygirlmd15 (22)
• United States
19 Jan 08
well it kinda happend to me i am a girl but i did this to a guy i dont have the best self esteem i thought he liked me this girl came up and asked him if he would go out with me and he said sure why not so about four hours i was laying on him flirting holding his hand and it seemed like he liked it exspacially when we got on the bus it was dark and it was at night and he kept trying to put his hand down my shirt but when i went to grab him beteen the legs he would grab my hand and not let me then his friend derick and i cuddled with him the night before and he said that we cant be ne thing more then just friends so we decided to go our seprete ways so i dident think it would be a big deal when he called jordan over to talk when jordan came back he said i just want to get to know u a little first i dont want to be together right now
i was so sad i started to cry i was just really sad if any one has advice then tell me but latly i have been really foward with guys and i almost got two guys what should i do am i being sluty because i let him touch me i just want a guy to like me thats all so i let them do what ever i try to be the best gf there is am i trying to hard just write back i dont know what to do
@zenmachado (1617)
• United States
19 Jan 08
Well just keep in mind that it does not always have to do with you. Many times the person is shy, insecure himself, or just confused. So maybe his decision to not further the situation has more to do with what is occuring in his own mind.
Many times you may think that other peoples actions are about you, but most times it has to do with themselves.
So you just have to build up your own confidence, and if someone does not want to be a part of a relationship with you, then you can have the strenght to continue and find what fits right for you.
@sylvrrain (659)
• United States
19 Jan 08
I am not a guy, but I think you should politely tell her that it was nice meeting her, but you need to leave. Then get up and walk away from her.
Of course, you could always just talk to her, you never know, you may end up liking her personality and sense of humor. She could become another friend.
It is a fact, you can be with a beautiful girl and once you get to really know her, she can turn out to be ugly, and you can be with someone who is not so attractive to look at and the more you get to know her, find out how beautiful she really is. The choice is up to you, but it will also tell the depth of your pesonality, or how shallow you might be.
@zenmachado (1617)
• United States
19 Jan 08
This comment is completely true... I mean.. regardless of the image, why would you want to share yourself with someone your not compatible with...
