i cant seem to understand this friend of mine !!!!

never try to remove all the troubles of a single person.there is very wast world and many problems everywhere.try to slove the problem of more and more people.but when u confined urself to a single person he will become to weak he will wait for u just for a small trouble.it is not good.u r not doind to help him in real u r going to destroy him by eliminating his ability of problems solving.help in such a way that the others feels he do it byself not with ur help.he think u just as a guide.and a person who is habitual crier let him to cry completely at once.then he/she will become so indpendent.it is good never make the other to ur slaves bt give independence to everyone to live.it is rule which Almighty God gve to everyone