Would You Trash Your Ex? - Why?

Hi there my dear friend ... You see, this discussion isn't about what's right and wrong, coz theoretically speaking, if a person hurt you so much then you must just forget about him and move on but life isn't always as simple as that. Sometimes staying with that person gives us a sorta pleasure we can't or let me say we don't to live without, got me buddy? Therefore, the answer to this post of yours varies depending on the case;: 1) If I were the one who trashed my ex, most probably I would have a legitimate reason 2 so, therefore most likely won't make it back to her, coz going back would be just redundant. 2) If she were the one who left me, and she wanted me back, then here come the calculations, I mean if I really like her and then I'd accept going back to her but putting in my mind for sure, she can not be relied on or trusted anymore, now you may ask what kind of relationship is this ? I agree but sometimes we cope up with sh*tY relationships knowing it is not wise to do so. As for your note how if she trashed me and said bad stuff about me 2 friends then I would recommend not 2 go back to her unless that part doesn't hurt you that much, I mean, in your point of view, you like her you like her presence so let her say whatever she wants 2 say as long as she's with you. See how complicated, relationship might be ? Your Friend

i think i wouldn't. If you trash someone just because your relationship didn't end well, that's a really bad thing to do. I think when people separate they should at least respect each other for he times that they we're happy together. Once in the past you have loved that person so why trash his/her reputation. If you do that you have become bitter yourself and unloved. It's as if yo have no respect anymore to yourself and to that memories you shared. If it's that bad, there's no point in saying to people about it right? If you don't have anything good to say then maybe you should just shut up, right? Saying bad things about others doesn't make you any better.. So don't waste your energy on those things...

I have done that....haven't lied about an ex tho but he has about me. It was hurtful but I just let it go. We did not part ways just to continue the battle. Actually, the hurtful words only confirmed that I was doing the right thing in moving on. As far as me trashing him....ya, guilty. I was upset and angry and it just helped to have a couple of vent sessions.