Love (has future?)

Broken Heart  - Red & black(smooke)
India
January 19, 2008 10:16am CST
I was having discussion with my friend about LOVE, he said people nowadays fall in love & then come out of it, It's like love usually has no future.What do u think about of discussion & his conclusion?
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@dta_kitty (191)
• India
19 Jan 08
Love can be defined in many ways.People who are in and out of love aren't steady.It is a commitment not a leisurely act.Some cases are unavoidable but there is a lot which needs to be put to make it work.Any relationship needs a lot of tending to keep it going fresh.When people are committed, they will do everything they can to make it work and not walk away as soon as they find a negative in their partner.It requires a lot of understanding,time,genuine love to keep it going.It remains in the hands of the couple whether to let it have a future or not.
@Archie_14 (147)
• India
19 Jan 08
If u are a one woman man , and your love for that single person is pure , there is no way that you will not patch up again , true love is that which comes back to you however how much time it may take ! If he she is the right girl boy for you , god automatically plans a very pleasent future for you !
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@palina77 (1177)
• United States
21 Jan 08
i think love does have a future but on the other hand people do say i love you and not even mean it..............
@rakinitin (685)
• Canada
19 Jan 08
There are so many different ways to feel love. Different levels. I love my daughter, then there is my spouse, then my dog. I love all UNCONDITIONALLY, the same as they do me. I also love each, in a different way. We also love our friends differently (both male and female), we love our work/school colleagues on a different level. Coupled with the fact that our lives are always changing, I'm not so sure 'falling out' of love is an accurate discription.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Jan 08
I think he is omewhat true. But not fully true. it may be the case somewhat but not always. There are still some people who fall in love,continue with it and eventually are happy ever after. There is also many cases where it does not work at all.
• India
20 Jan 08
yes now a days love is just like the same thing as your friend said we may believe that love is eternal and blind and ...blaw blaw blaw but utlimately we do wat? we come out of it just like that in a matter of days (how much deep it is) so i think your friend is absolutely right but there is a clause in that statemnet to we may come out the situation of love but we never forget the one whom we love most even we come out the relationship wat do you say?
@mehale (2200)
• United States
19 Jan 08
While I will agree that people do change, and sometimes do fall out of love, I will also point out that staying in love and relationships are something that have to be worked at. You don't simply fall in love and live happily ever after like a fairy tale. You have to work to keep the relationship alive and fresh. Only then does love have a chance of surviving.
• India
19 Jan 08
Love and infatuation should be confused with love...most of the times what really happpens it tht one feels tht he/she is love with another where is mistaken for ifatuation... Being in love is totally different from gettin infatuated.. Get Real ...Think Right ...Do right