Deep Love
@rock_angelley (32)
United States
January 19, 2008 7:40pm CST
Have you ever fell in love so deep that even after you broke-up that you don't want to let go of that love because your afraid to forget about that person and the memories that you two shared? Then you constantly think about that person and want to have another chance but you know that there is no way that you will??
What if you fell in love again and know that this person is the one that could make you feel like you have never been hurt at all?? What would you do in this situation?
4 responses
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I think, that while you need time to grieve and get over that love, you shouldn't dwell on the memories and what you used to have because that could make you miss the person that you were supposed to be with. Sometimes you just have to move on and let things go. Don't go out looking for love either, let love find you. It happens when you least expect it. I didn't find my one true love until I stopped looking for him. God bless
@rock_angelley (32)
• United States
20 Jan 08
I understand what you mean. In some way I believe that the person I am now in love with would have been under my nose the whole time and I never would have realized it. So I think in some way I am over my past love. But the way I look at things I have plenty of time to fall in love again and I am surely not going to dwell on something that could make me miss out!!
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
21 Jan 08
this is true. good luck to you and your future love. I know that you will have someone that you will absolutely adore and love forever. God bless you
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 08
Yes, I'm feeling that now. She is likely created exclusively for (does it sound familiar :-)). We support and encourage each other. She brings out our good qualities. She let me express myself without any complain.
@patgalca (18394)
• Orangeville, Ontario
20 Jan 08
I am going to be totally honest with you. I met a guy shortly after my 1st husband left me. I was on the rebound and a guy I was already acquainted with approached me at a dance. We went together for three months. I was too clingy and he broke up with me. I was devestated. But I moved on... with a friend of his. He admitted to me that he didn't like seeing me with this guy. Eventually I moved out of town away from both of them but I could not get that guy out of my head. I tried dating other guys but I would still lie in bed at night thinking about a guy who said, "Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't want to be with you?"
After six months he called me up on my daughter's birthday. He came for a visit, we started dating slowly. We didn't jump into bed with each other right away. We really did take it slowly. But, well, long story short. We've been married 10 ten years now. I strongly believe we were meant to be together. He had tried to move on as well but found his way back to me.
The only thing I can say to you is what is meant to be will be. Leave it in God's hands and live your life the best you can. Someone better may come along. You never know.
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
21 Jan 08
Well, i say... I'd take the risk of falling in love all over again. If you know that the person in the past, that you have loved so much, will not return anymore or there's no chance of getting back.. Then, why wait? and take the risk of being hurt all the time? If this new person can make you feel new again as if you've never been hurt then you should probably take that chance. It is a once in a lifetime chance, right?
Don't be afraid to love and move on. You can't just stay stuck to those memories and hurtful feelings that is long gone with the past. Move-on and Love. Life is a little better when you have someone to make you special...
That's only my opinion!
Best of luck to you!
God Bless! :)