Watching adult Films

I'd rather my partner be watching adult movies than at strip clubs or clubs messing around with a bunch of random women or men. At least with them watching movies, they're doing nothing but messing around with themselves. The only time I'd really be concerned about them watching adult films is when it became and obsession or an addiction and if they spent more time watching those movies than actually spending time with me.

I think your sister is feeling inferior about herself...That's why she think its disgusting and degrading... Never got annoyed about x rated films...The only cheating part about it is to learn the difficult positions they do on films... :D

Watching adult films will not make any difference in relationships. Some women unnecessary creates a hell out of that. I agree with you.. its like watching any other movie,ofcourse a part of entertainment. At the same time I can say that it all depends from person to person and their thinkings and the environment they were being brought up. So I can't blame your sister too. But ofcourse watching porns/adults film impures our heart and soul.

Noway, they are not disgrace and degrading. They are healthy if used optimally instead of becoming addict.One may not see their partners especially men,who by seeing women in good poses itself would get aroused. One may not see his partner in all the angles at the beauty in practicality then these soft movies help see feminine beauty from a different perspective which can get him become more excited and aroused. Perversion and excess,of course, in any form and thing is definitely not desirable

i used to not anymore i stopped this like 10 monthes ago or more

i think theres no harm in watching these kind of movies like ya said its just fantasy no harm no foul me and my girlfriend see eye to eye on this she really cool and if theres nothing wrong in ur relationship then there should be no problem with it it might ever show some new trick that we can try on our partners and like u said its a whole lot better then goin to some strip club with some skeez shakin her nasty stuff in ur face then u give her ur money thats just dumb to me and like i said im lucky me and my girlfriend see eye to eye on this one

I don't find watching X rated films annoying. If it helps a relationship, then go for it. If your partner doesn't want you to watch those films, she/he could be implying something; like come on over and let's do it or let's find those things together.

Well all 5 fingers aint the same so its obvious that evryone will have their own take on this.... i fell theres no harm in watching adult flims at the end of the day its just a movie u aint sleeping with that chick so its cool

i agree what you think i also think same we should talk about x rated movies to our members and try to find what they think about such films

im not a hypocrite type of person, i like watching them. my girlfriend knows about it, but she doesn't like me watching that. well, what can she do. that's my way of getting through a tough feeling of you wanted to have s3x but you can't due to some circumstances. i think it's not a form of cheating. it's too far from it.

Well it is not that bad actually to watch films suck as this as long as it doesn;t affect your life. Throwing in sometimes in a hot film is good to spice up this life. or better be try to watch free streams online its easy like some site like http://pinaysextube.com/ which is a social and adult community

LOL. I see where you are coming from and where most of the other posters are coming from, but I will have to agree with your sister. I was actually going to post a discussion similar to this. My man doesn't watch the films anymore...he took all of it out of the house and boxed it up, but didn't get rid of it. our compromise when i moved in was that he had to get it out of the house b/c i didn't want boobs starring me in the face every time i opened the movie cabinet or when i went to the bathroom...i know when they are batchelors they have hords of it, my thing was if we are serious and i so turn you on like you say i do and you haven't watched it since we have been together then why do you need it in your house still? If i supposedly am so smokin hott and turn him on so much then why would he still need that crap? Turns out it was a pride thing...his turf..whatever. I know men are visually stimulated and we are more emotional, and that is what bugs me i guess. So maybe it is an insecurity and that is your sisters problem as well. I try to think about this deeprooted issue and the cause of it b/c believe me I don't like to be a prude. I find that if it is about me though it is fine. If he takes pics of me or video of me or things we do together then I don't mind. So, I think it comes from a relationship long ago where i didn't have an issue with this and i watched one with my man at the time and he wouldn't stop talking about the girl on the tape....her very well endowed attributes, he would talk about my BFF's very fine attributes where mine weren't as well endowed...he never complimented me, I guess it stuck and hasn't gone away. so maybe that is what you sis has a problem with. Who knows. I think they are disgusting and degrading too! But there is probably a reason for that. I dunno.

I was actually just thinking about this the other night. I am torn in my decision. Yeah, I dont really mind. If you like it, go for it, you know? I dont want to control him and stop him from what he likes. Only problem I have with it is because of me. My boyfriend is a very confident man. I am the exact opposite. Im not very comfortable with my self or my body, very unconfident, etc. I dunno, its very hard to explain. I guess its just that I dont want him to long after the girls in the movies like that, or fantasize about being with them instead of me because they are hot and I am not. So again, its really my own personal insecurity problems.