my friend is a theif

United States
January 20, 2008 5:18pm CST
I was on my way to church this morning and i ran into a big problem :( My friends litle sister came up to me to tell me that her sister did some bad things. I was told that my friend broke into her neighbors house. She stole money and alchocal I have no idea what to do with her. She is my best frind and i love her. I need some help .
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• United States
20 Jan 08
Well, personally, you really don't know if it is true or not. Your friend did not tell you, but her sister did. I would just tell your friend that you needed to speak with her and tell her the truth. I rarely believe what I hear from others. If she denies it and if she is your best friend and you love her as you say, you will trust her word. If she lied, then in time the truth will come out.
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• United States
21 Jan 08
Yes, I'm sure the truth will come out. But due to her behavior lately I believe that this is true. And since we live in a small town, I'm sure the truth will come out very soon. I'd spoken with her before about her crazy behavior and it just seems to be getting worse. I love her very much and don't want to end our friendship, but I don't want people to think that I am doing the same nutty things that she is doing. She is really getting involved in some things that she should not and I am truly worried about her. Do you have any helpful informaition?
• United States
21 Jan 08
The only thing that I know is to tell her the truth. I can understand what you are saying and what you are feeling. I had a very dear friend when in high school, that due to some of her behavior, even though I loved her, I had to step away from the friendship. All you can do is talk to her, it is up to her to change. She may and she may not. She may need to go through this period at this time in her life. Maybe let her know that if she needs to talk you will be there for her and just not hang out with her. Incidentally, I met with my old friend years after and we have the same bond that we had way back when. Does she have a parent or someone else that she looks up to that maybe you could confide in that would maybe talk to her? I hope that it all works out for you, and I am so sorry that you have this worry. :(
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
21 Jan 08
Sounds like at your age she has something to prove, or is just trying to be cool. Tuff love is always the key for me. Let her know straight out that you care for her but its ridiculous to think you will just stand by her when she acts stupid. kb
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@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
21 Jan 08
Apparently your friends sister came to you with this information so that you could speak to her about it. And only you can know for sure if you think it is true, no one knows your friend like you do. You should definitely speak to her about this.
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@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
22 Jan 08
I think you should speak to her and tell her that she could get into trouble for this. Really big trouble if her neighbour reports this to the police. It seems that she has been having some problems recently. Perhaps you could be a friend and listen to her, and also bring her to church. I believe that you must have a youth group there, and perhaps a youth pastor who can listen to her and offer positive friendship. I hope she gets pointed into the right direction. If you love her you must point her in the right direction and do what is best for her.