Why I was always left alone

Maybe she,s realized who is more important to her.Better give her a chance.But do remember women likely change mind at times.

Without even you stating that you're depressed and even before reading your post, I could easily tell that you're really depressed. The user name you chose gives your present condition right away. I'm not quite sure why I do but I symphatize with you in an instant. Maybe because I have gone through this situation before but in a more severe or advanced level. You see, I had a former relationship with a single guy and we survived three years already when I was surprised by an unexpected call from a lady who told me that she's on the family way. And that the father of her unborn child is my boyfriend. I won't go into lengths stating the nitty-gritty details of the incident but I'm pretty sure you know how it felt. Naturally, we talked about it. He asked me to give him enough time to decide on the matters at hand. But he couldn't give me a definite period. Before my heart could get the better of me, I gave him a cold reply. It was a rough and tough time. But I was able to stand once again. I'm not telling you to dump her all at once; nor am I implying to give her a second chance. I believe time has a way of telling you when to do what should be done. If both of you are really meant for each other, you'll be back in each other's arms in God's time. Maybe it would be a great idea to start the 'getting-to-know-you' process once again. Be friends with her for the meantime. By doing so, you will both know if what you have is true love or friendship or fling which you have mistaken as love. One more thing, please be kind to yourself and love yourself enough. So that no matter happens you could be friends with yourself again and you could easily forgive yourself from all the mistakes you've encountered. Never trust anyone to mend your broken heart. For if this someone ever hurts you or if she leaves you for another or if she's taken from you either by fate or by destiny; you won't be able to mend your heart again. This is one of the lessons I've learned from my previous mistakes and I hope you won't encounter the pain as I did. Anyway, take a lot of care, God bless and do remember to love yourself enough.

This is a very tough decision and we cannot decide for you dear. It's your life and you have to take the decision. It's pretty much obvious that you love her very much, much more than she does. May be she loves you as well and it was just a temporary aberration but still how can we ignore that! There is no guarantee that she would not do it again. Will you be able to live with the fear? Will you be able accept her no matter what. You ask yourself these questions and find out yourself. I wish you best of life and love. Good Luck! Smiles...

i think its easier said than done to suggest giving her a second chance, i think for the sake of love you should but if it then goes on to thwart the relatiionship because you cant trust her then you will both grow to not like each other xx