my girlfriend is such a flirt

Is she on MyLot?

I assume you mean a female friend of yours rather than someone you are dating. I guess it depends on what type of flirting it is. If it is harmless, just a little attention getting flirting that she puts an end to before it gets too serious then perhaps she just wants a little attention. It does bother me that she doesn't do it when he is around like she knows she is doing something he wouldn't like. Perhaps you should ask her if it is so okay for her to be a flirt, then why doesn't she do it when she is out with her husband?

That girlfriend will mess you up-firstly, the husband will think you are the one teaching her these terrible ways for a married woman! Secondly, her funny habits may rub off on you and That is one thing I dont wish you-please neelygal, is it too costly for you to leave this girl and find a more morally upright one?

hello neelygal... hmmm, maybe her husband should know about it now perhaps, maybe you could tell her husband? hehehe... i don't know what makes her act that way, and yes maybe you are right, for the attention she receives. but, i have a question, since she is married, is her needs not attended by her husband that is why she is looking for attention outside? flirting per se? yes, her husband will get angry i believe, the trust will be ruined. but since you are there for her, ry to tlk to her therapeutically, maybe she has some problems regarding her married life because she is not contented and still looking for much life outside by flirting even she knows herself she is married. as a friend you are to her, convince her to tell you her problems ans reassure her it will be kept as your secret. somehow, you should convince her to talk to her husband and they should communicate as well. maybe first thing she can do is, flirt with her husband to get his attention and talk by then.

I really belive that her husband 'should' find out, so at least then she might change her ways, she is married and marriage should not be taken lightly. Tell her Husband!

"angry if he finds out" Angry is probably an understatement. If you are fine with dating a married woman, that's your business. But look at it this way -- if she cheats on her husband now, if the two of you get married, how will you be sure that she won't cheat on you? Once a cheat, always a cheat. Chances are she won't be faithful. Just a thought.

So, what kind of relationship do you really have? Is their anything like an affair...? No man would feel bad to realize that his wife is have fan, and nothing funny...? Women are not slaves... even slaves play... But, please make me understand what is going on...

Actually flirting is good for you...seriously...and if she's JUST flirting and not actually messing around with others then I really see no harm in it at all..

It is not easy to be flirt, one need courage and happy mode. Anger is not good.

Well your girlfriend is a flirt and you know it then why dont you leave her by yourself.She will obviously find a new victim if you leave her because she doesn`t love you.She is still gonna stay with her husband only with the goddess image she has in front of her husband.I think you can`t do anything much about it rather than either getting her caught by her husband or leaving her the way she is.Actually your question does not seem to be too true or the way you wanted to put it,it is not clear at all.

It can only mean three things - one, she might be not happy with her married life and two, she want to have a little fun and three, she is weak to temptation and really a cheater. It may also depend on the range of her flirting if you think that its really out of line - like if you see her getting acquainted with someone that's the time that you need to tell her husband.

I would be more than angry if I found our that my Hubby was even a bit of a flirt behind my back. Fun isnt really just fun when it is crossing some line and I think this is crossing a line. I once flirted to get a 4X4 freebie, part for our jeep, but my Huby sent me to do it. I still felt really bad afterward.

the fact that you know her status...you should not be having any connection with her, anyway. Get out of the relationship while you have the time...if she's flirting with someone else...that would be her problem and don't get involve. Just get busy with your own life without her. Leave her to her husband...let them face the problem together. Good day to you!

dump her! she deserve it

your first line got me totally stumped! :) but it was good cos I read on and things got clearer. I was wondering why your girlfriend (assuming you were a guy) was married. haha. i think your friend needs to be spoken to by someone she respects. I think she is trying to get attention. And this is not the right way to get attention. Perhaps she feels insecure too. Ultimately she should stop playing with fire because one day she will get burnt. And if she loves her husband she would not be behaving like this.

I would have to say that you should probably leave it alone. She is looking for attention and even when you say something she is getting that attention. Her husband will find out in due time and wether he gets mad or not she will have to deal with it.