A little MORE Conversation Please

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Sorry Elvis but I think you got this one wrong. I came to a startling revelation last night. My honey and I never fight. Sure we exchange words every once and a while but that is all it ever is. We used to fight A LOT but never about anything in our relationship. We would get into arguments about my ex making my life miserable and some decision I would end up making that my honey didn't approve of. But now that he is no longer an influence on any part of my life there is no more of that. In fact there is hardly any conversation at all. We don't talk about anything. We have so much going on. We're getting married. We're buying a new house. We're going to have more children. We are planning this years vacation. Yet, we never sit down and talk about any of this. The other night we were watching a comedian who said that the way to eternal happiness in a relationship is not to fight and the only way to achieve that is to never talk. My honey found this to be hilarious. It made me mad. So then he asked me what it was I wanted to talk about to which my reply, was "nothing honey". I guess I just feel that if any of this isn't important enough for him to discuss there is no sense in me bringing it up because it obviously isn't a discussion he feels is worth having. So my question to you is, how do you communicate with your significant other? Do you talk about everything or do you just wait until they bring up a topic b before you engage in a conversation?