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@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
United States
January 21, 2008 11:49am CST
Do you tell your honey when something they are doing just isn't doing it for you?
Example: I used to bite my sweeties chest and pay extra attention to his nipples. I did this for months before we ever had the conversation where he told me that doing that did absolutely nothing for him.
I wasn't mad because that entire time I put up with him licking my ears which does nothing for me.
So the question I ask is this, do you tell your partner when something they are doing doesn't turn you on or you don't particularly like it or do you just put up with it?
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@isaacs_mommy_2006 (99)
• United States
29 Jan 08
Yes i tell by hubby what i love and what i don't. He does the same thing. What is the point of s*x if you don't enjoy it? I don't do it to be mean, I just want him to feel good when he makes me feel good. You know what I mean? Keeping your playing field open makes room for better enjoyable s*x.
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@Live2Learn (272)
• United States
21 Jan 08
I will tell him for sure! I want to know from his as well. We have been together for a year and half before I realized that he LOVES attention given to his nipples. Maybe he never knew before me that he liked that, I don't know. But I think it is important that stuff like is talked about.
Why would you want something done for a period of time that you don't like? Dont you always want to enjoy it? Definitely if my man does something that I don't like during the act I will use body language to direct him to another place or to let him know i don't like that. i won't come out and say that I don't, b/c that may ruin the mood. But body language speaks a lot! Ya know?!
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@darkangel079 (1498)
• United States
22 Jan 08
For me I multi-task when it comes to romance. I don't like to stick to one thing because it gets uncomfortable - I like to surprise and do things that sparks a woman on fire. A woman's beauty is in the hair, the caressing, the smell of the hair, putting my face on it, the scent of her neck, soft kisses, soft bites - combinations with the hands going through the arms slowly and gently - biting on the shoulders - biting the ears gently, cuddling, biting of the lips, kissing passionately, exploring like a journey of milk and honey. hands that caress through the hips, through the legs - if a man does not know how to give a massage they should start learning now. foot massages, caressing them and many other things that spark the flames - methods like these work even from a girl i've known in the Philippines - all she said is that it rocked her world and it went further.
