does your parter really love you?

United States
January 21, 2008 1:57pm CST
ive been with my gf for 2.3 years, im convinced that shes in love with me, but im not sure because she has cheated on me in the past and she still breaks my heart but not with others, and i try to break up with her, but she begs me not to leave her, does that happen to any one else?
4 responses
aissha
@aissha (2036)
• India
22 Jan 08
if someone cheats u ,leave her/him ,u r not even married so don't have second thoughts and leave her right away.no one in this world has right to break ur heart.
24kkattster
@24kkattster (10)
• United States
22 Jan 08
How does she break your heart? Can't really respond until more details revealed. I'm sorry that you're going through this, but I do not put up with cheating. Not any more. Sounds like you two have a symbiotic relationship, which is NOT healthy...
martinha
@martinha (631)
• Portugal
21 Jan 08
Never happened to me. I'm with my partner for almost 5 years and we love each other. It's really strange that your girlfriend wants to stay with you but at the same time she cheats. Why does she break your heart? Because she cheated on you before? I believe it's really hard to forgive someone who cheated on you because you'll never trust her like you trusted her.
Buttercup26
@Buttercup26 (164)
• India
21 Jan 08
Nope this has not happened to me. I am with my bofriend for close to 3 years now. Though we have our ups and downs, he still loves me like we just got hooked up.