its no fun being broken hearted

Pain is part of truly living and only time can heal it. We just have to refuse to live in the past and go on from there. Clubs aren't the best place to meet quality partners, anyway. Join a group of people who share an interest or hobby that you have, or visit a museum, zoo, or other public place where there isn't the pressure to impress someone, and in time you will meet the right person. It's better to be alone than with someone who doesn't appreciate you.