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By riderinlife
@riderinlife (31)
United States
January 22, 2008 8:30am CST
hi all, i wanted to ask if anyone's holiday was stressfull . i have some issues with a new son in law , and it is breaking my heart ! i can't belive that my time has come (for this)in life for this junk ! i really want some in put soooooooo if anyone can relate PLEASE let me know .This last past year my mom passed - on and she was the who i could talk to about anyting . thanks for your in out .
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@owatagoosiam (751)
• United States
28 Jan 08
Holidays are frequently stressful. But, thankfully, to a minor extent. The core of the problem before me is, why is your son in law breaking your heart and should you care? Don't let people know they have power over you. That's all the advice I can offer.
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@riderinlife (31)
• United States
28 Jan 08
isn't that the truth ! so now listen to this : good o'l son in law is supposed to be deployed on feb 18th, my daughter has another grandson on the way and he'll be gone for that (his 1st child) so looks like we'll have to help her , the other side of the inlaw's are not very helpful.she asked us to come to texas to help.sy daughter is sooo sad she say's that there is this distance now between us , from the holidat junk that went on, and she hasn't called (we talked everyday) and so i'm going to let her grow - up and br an adult (as she's calling it ) annd just LIVE MY LIFE NOW. i'm goin to be 50 this year nad i want to not have the feeling tha i have to take care of anyone or anyhting but my self , and that's a whole different story. thanks for the advice ;-)
@riderinlife (31)
• United States
22 Jan 08
that is very good! i am sorry to say that the christmas i had here with my family was not very good at all. i have the BIGGEST BROKEN HEART EVER and i'm tryin to cope but it hurt, but i know ya have to pull your boot straps up and go on in life, it's just hard to :-(
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Jan 08
My husband and I can both relate to family drama. We have learned to just let it happen, and avoid it. Both of our families live in the East. Eastern USA for him, and Canada for me. We are currently in AZ. We spent Christmas ALONE this year, and enjoyed the heck out of it!!!
@riderinlife (31)
• United States
28 Jan 08
i hear ya ! we have a new (program) for lack of a beeter word. but ya we are goin to go racing for the season, so i can say bye bye to the junk with both of them !
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@riderinlife (31)
• United States
28 Jan 08
oh ya i forgot to tell you i was born and raised in arizona, i wish you could have seen it in the 60's ;-)
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