Do you think that your husband........

Sure he does. I flirt too when I know it'll get me something I want. Do I mind? No. Does he mind? No. He comes home to me at night. He sleeps with me at night. He lives with me. He made those vows to me. A little harmless flirting is no big thing. He wears a wedding ring so if he does flirt, they know he's married. It does not bother me.

boys are boys so i dont mind him flirting with other woman as long as i am not around.what will make me mad is him flirting with someone while he is with me..that will make the big difference.

My husband looks at anything female, thin, fat, old, young, gorgeous or mediocre. He doesn't really openly flirt, but he does stare. And he always has a comment. I am not really a jealous person. I do plenty of looking around and I don't have a great history of marital fidelity, although I have never been with anyone since I married my second husband. We both talk about others and look at others. He isn't jealous either. I think it's much healthier than being a bi-atch or bickering with my hubby. Women are just as guilty of looking and flirting as men. Lighten up.

I feel tha same way you do on this topic. I would be beyond furious if I even found up my husband was flirting with other women. Its almost as bad as cheating I think.

Flirting is harmless. I bet even you do it, whether you realize it or not. Until there are actions involved, you shouldn't think anything of it. If you don't trust him, why did you marry him in the first place?

Im sure mine has done it even though he'll deny it to the fullest. I would'nt get upset with harmless flirting but Id really be ticked off if a female or and my man where touchy feely with each other. That would cross the line and Id have to kick somebodys a--

i don't tolerate flirting, maybe it comes with my conservative culture (or my jealous nature, hehe). we already defined flirting and we both agreed we wont cross the line. i trust him as i dare him to do, so i'd also do, hahaha! i guess that's why he doesn't! :)

I wouldn't mind if he did, but I know for a fact that he doesn't since he doesn't flirt. He barely talks and I don't think he even knows how to flirt.

As long as it was harmless flirting, I wouldn't get too upset. I think that's just natural. I don't worry about my husband looking at other women too much. I know that he loves me and besides, he's too busy looking at cars to notice other women!

We are all but human so whether we like it or not there will come a time when we are not around our husband will really flirt. Either in a way of flirty smile, look or conversation but no matter how he do it the most important thing is for the moment it's fine because he's excited for as long as he doesn't cross the border.

Since this discussion is targeted at females, I don't think I can respond to it... However, I have to remind you that using hacksaw to cut off his privates will just land you in jail....I think the more important question is, is he worth it?

My husband is a HUGE flirt. Its all harmless fun and it dont bother me at all. He works in an all male company so I know its not going on at work. He dont go very far without me so I pretty much know when he's flirting. I am a big flirt myself so I can't tell him that he can't do something, when I do it to :)

At first I must have the same reaction as you, but after a while I will have a deep thought about why he did it. If someting wrong with me, I will try to make myself better,Otherwise I will leave him.I really can't abide off the trial of emotion.

Yes.. in fact, it wasn't even behind my back. We fought over it.. never got an answer as to why but he said he was sorry.. and I never observed him doing it again

I'm sure my husband flirts with other women and its ok with me. I know who he comes home to every night. I know who's bed he is sleeping in and I know that if he needs more then what I give him hes got a problem and needs a doctor lol. I am very confident in our relationship and know if he were to flirt thats all it would ever be.

I feel that in marriage, mutual trust is very important. This trust keeps the marriage alive and happy. I trust my partner. That's it. I hope all husband and wife be loyal to each other so that the children do not suffer in the process. God bless all the family.

if i find out that my husband is flirting behind my back???? will i do the ssame thing like you??? hahaha! after cutting his favorite possession what will i do to it? i'll probably display it in a museum! it will serve as a lesson to all the husbands out there! hahaha! i cant do it seriously, i love my husband and if he did flirts to somebody... well, i'll just be here waiting for him. if you love your husband you should not doubt his love for you... whatever he does... at the end of the day he will always be there coming home for you.

I think that flirting is just a natural reaction to an attraction between two humans. It doesn't mean that he loves you any less or her any more. As long as he's not taking the next step towards something "taboo", I say flirting is harmless. I flirt with other men, my husband flirts with other women, but we're home at night with each other. NO harm done. I do not get jealous of other women. You have to understand that especially for men, dating and the whole "pre marriage" ritual is a huge game. Once the game is over, flirting is no longer fun to do with your "wife". Don't be upset that he's flirting with other women. Be happy that even though he MAY be flirting with other women, he's still coming home to YOU.

As long as he keeps his hands to himself, I would celebrate the fact that he is a healthy, straight, All-American guy!

I sure wouldn't go drastic like you would. I would talk to him and explain how I feel when he flirts with other women. I would tell him if he wanted to flirt with other women I wouldn't care so as long he doesn't do it in front of me or act on those flirtations. I am not a jealous person. I wouldn't ask him not to flirt, I would tell him how it makes me feel and it would be his choice if he cared how I feel or not by quitting or not quitting to flirt.