stay at home moms what do you do?

United States
January 22, 2008 12:14pm CST
What do you do all day? I know that some of yall have kids that yall take care of during the day but other than that what do you do. And then there are the ones like me that dont have a kid to pass that day to day time inbetween everyone getting home. I stay on the computer most of the time. I had to make a chore list for everyone to make sure I got my chores done and I still try to slack b/c i get on this darn thing and dont get off. If I dont get on I read, watch TV, and clean thats about it. sometimes I go across the street to a friends house (whom i dont even really like but is the only person I know other than family that hangs out with me) But thats my life what a bore. and im only 21 lol
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
23 Jan 08
When I was at home before the kids, I used to go for a hobby class and started a reading club (because I like to read...you can start a club of something you like). I like to do embroidary....and would experiment and try to make cushion covers....paint (I'm not very good at it...but it kept me busy) and try to make changes around the house often...move this there. But now, taking care of the kids (actually just one at home all the time) takes all my time and I find myself lagging on the housework front. But I'd rather spend time with my child than clean. So what if my house isn't really organized for another 2 years...we'll get back to it then. I have someone come in and help me with the regular cleaning ...so it's kind of clean.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
24 Jan 08
lol..yes, that makes sense since it sounds just like me! Well, if you are enjoying your time here....then why worry about other things to do? Happy mylotting!
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• United States
24 Jan 08
thanks
• United States
23 Jan 08
Yea as long as its presentable. I'm a clean freak but im lazy at the same time if that makes since LOL. I would start a club we actually got some here in town but I dont have a ride and I dont know anyone to make my own. The writers club is at the libary like once a month (i am writing a book and hope it goes well I just got to write in it) but no ride :( I have colored (not just a kids coloring but you know mixing colores and creating something) and it came out better than i thought but half way through it I stoped coloring it. I stay on here most of the time.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
23 Jan 08
So, if you're only 21, and no kids, then why not get a job if you are so bored? or volunteer? I have 3 months off a year, I work as a season firefighter for the forestry service, the first week off is the kicker, I'm used to getting up at 5:30 and being at work by 8, get off at 4 home by 5p, then all of sudden, he's getting up and going to work and I'm home. But, I had a lot of scrapbooking to catch up on, and I cleaned the house, not just straightened, but really cleaned, I still have the attic and basement to clean up. I check emails, and stuff, but don't stay on the computer all day.
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• United States
23 Jan 08
well the reason I dont have a job is b/c I cant get one out side of school hours b/c i do have a step kid, the jobs around here wont hire between those hours and I odnt have a car anyways yet. then I thought about volunteering at the school but again no car. And I got to admit I do like sitting here. belive me though I do get in arguments with my fiance sometimes on how I want a job b/c I dont have enough people interactions through out the day. He would perfer me to stay home right now though. He dont care if i get a job but thats what he perfers.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
22 Jan 08
I'm a stay at home mom but both my brats are in school all day so I am alone (with my 6 pets LOL)...I do various things, I'm online working, posting, researching, I cook I clean I do laundry, I do arts and crafts (mainly sewing) I workout, watch movies, and the list just goes on....
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• United States
22 Jan 08
LOL ya time for anything I also play with my two ferrats they are so fun. We were going to get a spider monkey but we decided not to because cost to much in fruit daily.
• United States
22 Jan 08
I have a small child and still don't really do much,lol. We have play time twice a day, once before lunch and once after lunch for about an hour where I will give him direct one on one attention. We play blocks or trains or whatever he wants. I try to get one load of laundry done every day but that doesn't always mean they get folded. I keep things cleaned and I am constantly picking up toys. When my son goes down for a nap then I get on the computer and play gmaes. I tend to pop off an on the computer throughout the day keeping up with a couple parenting sites or email. I'm only 24 and this have been my life since I was 21. I enjoy it.
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• United States
22 Jan 08
It is quite fun and i see myself likeing being at home by myself and doing as I please with no distraction. I have become a why bigger loner than i ever thought i would be. oh well no one bugs me LOL
@2btrueinu (700)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Your to young to be bored lol. Me mylife is going arounf also with my family doing some house chores specially cooking, I love to cook that's why I do that almost 3 times a day. I stay here in my computer almosy 4 hours a day.In the aferternoon when my kids are already here from school we do their home work if they have and study their lesson, I also love to read and watch T.V. thursday I go out with my friends it my day off ha ha ha I have to do it to smell some air we go to church and we go window shopping and eating ofcourse then talking until the time is running out for us..... my husband where talking everyday about everything our kids special topic.... When I have enough time I do my hobby cross stiching. I've done many of them and I frame it and hang it on the wall. I have a happy life it so simple but I love doing it everyday Sometimes I felt it's also boring but..... I don't want to think it that way coz I'm happy and my family keeps me happy
• United States
23 Jan 08
Yes im happy too just sometimes wish I could go out and do things. I dont have friends though (b/c the ones i use to have arnt what I want to be anymore if you know what i mean) one day i will find someone that I actually like to hang with though
• United States
22 Jan 08
Oh man, lol I remember feeling like that! Granted that was a few years ago. I too am a sahm. But I have five kids! I'm 32 now, but I had my first when I was 20. Now, there is way too much laundry, cleaning and cooking to do for me to sit around and be bored. I do quilt when I have time, as well as read. I listen to the radio when I have to clean that seems to give me a boost of energy! Maybe start going out for a jog everyday (not a long one, just as long as you can handle), or go to the library once a week, take yourself out for a cup of coffee or tea. Maybe try to meet some other moms in your area and go out to lunch once in a while? Just a few ideas off the top of my head. :O) Don't worry, it gets better!
• United States
22 Jan 08
Yea I figured I try to do stuff Like little projects but I never get them finished I'm writing a book but only have 2 chapters in like 6 months. I was coloring something and its looking real good but its halfway done in my computer desk, LOL. I exercise like for a week then take a week off. and get on the computer. I dont have a car yet but will sooner or later. I get bored of the things i do sometimes though