hey whats up with all the cheating out their???

If you look at the problems in this world,cheating on lots of things is a major problem. People need more self control! Compassion is the key. Cheating is not fair to anyone. There needs to be more communication between couples. I guess some could use the excuse it was their upbringing, but that's not a valid excuse, because we need to grow up and respect anothers feelings.

I don't understand it either. not only can you get it with your current relationship, it just causes so much pain and so much problems. People think they won't get caught but most times sooner or later they do. The only exception is maybe they are NOT getting it at home. But it's still not worth it.

Perhaps this very interesting article will help to answer your question. Of course, the whole point is that one hopes that what one gets is NOT going to be the same. The sad fact is that most people seem predisposed to choose a similar partner the next time around. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/portal/main.jhtml;jsessionid=HEPIXJJDPBSMRQFIQMGSFF4AVCBQWIV0?xml=/portal/2008/01/22/ftfaithful122.xml