Am I Wrong

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now i have to tell you a story. one of my best friends has this boyfriend that started off being very nice layback and cool. he would come and hange out chip in on the weekend agenda and everything. slowly but surly he actually moved in and every thing was still cool. then all of a sudden when they would argue he would tear up her things. even after this she forgave him and let him back in, with the thought he was going to replace what he messed up. at this point im cool with him and as long as shes happy im happy for her. then on this past new years night he decides to catch an attitude with her in the back sit of my car! at this point they are swinging at each other. yes both of them. she tells my husband to pull over so he can get out qand leave. at this point she gets her belongings from him and he leaves. as we were about to pull off he punches the back door window of our car!! i was mad. already in the mix for me was to leave childish attitudes, behaviors, and people in 2007. i wanted my 2008 to be great, and now that he is gone it really is better. he got mad at me and started calling me names because i wouldnt speak to him. just like i said i left his kind in 2007. after about 2 weeks he apoligized and said he wanted us to be friends. i told him if your gonna be grown and act like it then ok, but im not dealing with anything else. after 1 day of hanging out he starts that same childish behavior all over again. my husband borrowed 10 dollars with the thought they he would give it back the next day. the car job fell through and he told the guy that he wouldnt have the 10 til friday on payday. the guy said it was cool as long as he could get 13 back. 2 days later he textes me asking about the 10. i didnt borrow the 10, and didnt have any money to give him. he hounded me for the ten and to this day still is asking me for, after we gave it to his ex girlfriend as of now. am i wrong for shutting him out of my life in the first place? should i have just let it go?