how will you deal the pain if you lost a loved one?

i felt pain... when i read your discussion.. i felt sadness... i dont know how to heal you.. but i bet i can make you feel better^_^smile now... your uncle loves you, he shared hes life with you while hes still alive. he could have it with anyone else, but he had love you most, given you that comfort and that support. somethings in life, that are mostly wonderful do perish.. and we are left behind to mend and pick up the pieces still we stand up and fight. because we are alive... theres more we can do, he never left you... his memories remain, his love and his kindness stayed in your heart... so even if his physical being is not there anymore.. what he did, his memories shall never perish^_^ he will watch over you and your family, always and forever.. take care^_^