how to sell and buy to ebay?

I understand that Ebay has just raised its fees for sellers to list their items. You may want to checkout Craigslist.com as far as selling your items -- there is no listing fee charged.

With my bad seller experience, I do not think eBay is a good place.

I would first buy some small inexpensive things to boost your ebay points up. Then I would recommend starting with things around the house. Do your research to see what alike items are selling for. Make sure you have spare boxes around for shipping and get a scale. Always weight the item in its packing box so you have a very close idea on what to charge for shipping. Name brand clothes are the easiest.