What is the best guage of success?

if we are going to define success itself, it is the outcome of what you do and what you pursue in life. i believe that you cannot just make a comparison on different situations in our life, whether it is love, money, career, family, frisnds and the list goes on. as you said it that some person succeed in business and failed in family relationships and vice versa, a typical example how complicated life's circumstances are. we just have to remember that every person has it's own limitations, has it's own choice, has it's own principles in life that they are following and with that it is just too hard to compare one from other because there are so many variables to consider. and you can only compare things with the same elements yet there are alos times that setting goals to achieve something is just the right way to do. or should i say setting realistic goals had higher percentage of achieving later on thans just setting it randomly as we see others have done in their life. nonetheless, that doesn't mean that you can't achieve what others are achieving, it depends in the availability of resources that you have on hand and the contentment of what you are achieving.

success is when u feel happy......obviouslt it cannot be money.....bcoz' u can buy bed not sleep with it.