Ever been cheated on?

You are only in the 4th grade. You really shouldent be thinking about girls yet. Think about school that is way more important. But yes I have been cheated on by my ex. We were together 3 years and I caught him in action. My husband now has never cheated and never will. I was to worried about boys when I was in school and it messed up my school work. You have plenty of time to meet a girl. Michelle

yes, i have been cheated on and yes it does suck. my ex husband cheated on me and three of my ex boyfriends. My husband, now, thankfully, has not and it wouldn't be a good idea for him to even try it. It gets old after you pour your heart into a relationship to only find out that it was all a big joke to the other person. That is amazing that in fourth grade you had a girlfriend that long. I don't remember even thinking about boys in that way when i was in elementary school. I didn't start going out until i was in 9th grade. thanks for sharing and God bless

4th grade. I wasnt even dating in the 4th grade. This seems to young to have a serious relationship to me. How can a 4th grader have an attention span long enough to last 8 months. When I read posts like this it makes me feel really old and worry about the world I am raising my kids in. I hope my son wont be dating in 3 years.

you are still young you can find someone else better than her. right now what you can do best is study hard and show to this girl that you are worthy to love than any other guy. you have so much to find in the future... so much to learn more about love. just enjoy your youth dont be on the rush of having a serious relationship. explore your youth but also be careful on exploring. not all exciting things are good. always be cautious on your act. coz anything that you do... you are responsible for it whatever age you are right now....

Yes, I have been cheated on. It happened in my second serious relationship. We were together for about a couple of months before I started cheating on him. It was a stupid relationship so I really didn't care. And he didn't want to leave me so we continued the relationship even after he found out what I did. I guess he had ulterior motives for having us continue the relationship, because I later found out that he was cheating on me as well. But it was sort of like a revenge cheating. He knew I was still cheating on him with other people so he did the same as well. Trying to give me a taste of my own medicine. I never even blinked an eye. The pain of being cheated on all depends on whether you have real feelings for your partner. If your heart is not even in the relationship then you won't feel an ounce of pain whenever they cheat on you nor would you feel an ounce of guilt when you cheat on them. I do know that if the ex that recently broke up with me did cheat on me, then I would be completely devastated because I remained completely faithful while we were together.