Do you mind your lover having affairs?

I have never cheated on any man I've been with and likewise I won't put up with it. If I am going to put my time and my heart into a relationship, it will be with someone who is of the same ethics and morals as I am. If it turns out he is not, then I'll just end it...simple. I let a man know in the beginning how I feel about those things and then I don't think about it at all unless I have cause to. Trust is everything. If I can't trust my partner then I don't need it in my life. Some people are ok with sharing and that is their choice. If they are both on the same page with it...it is their business. I will tell you that to worry about it with no good cause can and will ruin an otherwise good relationship. Not everyone is like that.

ofcourse i will not tolerate it. but i wont easily give up our realationship i will give my best to solve this problem and fight for my love for him. but if things will not work out for us... then it is better to let go than to suffer from a relationship that will end to nothing. sometimes truth hurts but we have to face it to move on...

it will break me like mirror. i dnt want to think about it i will be the last day of my life.

Of course I would mind if my lover had an affair. It would totally destroy me and ruin my self esteem. If I had a child with this person I would try and make it work, but my partner would have to be 100% committed into seeking professional help. Otherwise there is no way I would stay. Also my partner would have to try and reassure me whenever I felt insecure as he did the damage to the relationship. However if he had an affair regularly or more then once I would not forgive him.