One-sided Relationships

Thanks for resurrecting this old discussion that I have completely forgotten.. its been months since I last replied to anyone who participated in this discussion.. Reap what you so, as they say.. Nudging you to 'get it over with?' I was suggesting you to get that 'hide when you see them' over with.. so you mean to say you not only do that on those who stare and point their lips at you or those who usually get recognized with daily interaction, you also do that on prospect(s)? Well, I didn't know that you also do that to them but, if they're available, why not hide them along with you? ~ just kidding On my part, they are simply taken or not interested. I wouldn't like to create a scenario that would be too problematic. If she's already with someone else, that's just how the way it is. If she's not interested, then good for her. If I was to take some girl from her current partner, it would imply that I can also accept chances that she can also be taken away from me. Now, I wouldn't like that. If I would insist myself on someone who really doesn't want to get into a relationship, I'd be just building my hopes up while vexing her away. Of course, the set up is different when its from your (girl's) point of view.. its not as simple as waiting for either Valentines or Christmas or in any other activity that the girl just comes forward to her prospect and admits what she feels. Yeah, I often did weird stuff just from getting inspired from them but also, wasn't that serious to actually admit it to them. I have probably gave them hints but, even when they do notice them, they still act the same way, as natural as before which implies that they are better with what we are at that moment than to pushing it into something else. '...so that going to school everyday(?) won't be that boring.' I can relate to this one. I use to come to school so early.. Be in class while nobody was still around.. then prospect arrives wherein I appreciate those moments that we're the only students in the classroom, even though conversations rarely happen like, 'do we have to pass something today?' or 'can I 'refer' from your assignment(s)?' or the most typical would be, 'can I have a bite? (I'd be eating something of course..)' also did that half-way through college.. and someone also was like that too.. '...not really looking.' Oh yeah, this is different from looking out for those that you hide from.. then again, some of them happens to be among those that, as you implied that I keep on insisting, 'get over with.'

Caught off guard? That would seem like an embarrassing incident.. Why wouldn't it be good for her not being interested? It would just mean possibilities that she might already have someone else in mind or she has more important priorities.. '...every girl is different' indeed. That's a good way on being indirect, taking a seat on your prospect's chair.. She's the one who asks those questions I posted earlier.. not me.. Am I? I guess I should drop it starting now..

WOah! HAppy to see how you commented on my response.^_^ you also do that on prospect(s) what? hiding? depends really.LOL! of course Id be 'hiding' my 'affections' from them but I surely wont duck down just because they're there. hmm..I seem to remember I did that when I was caught off guard. If she's not interested, then good for her. what do you mean?why is it good for her not being interested in you? If I was to take some girl from her current partner, it would imply that I can also accept chances that she can also be taken away from me. I do so agree with you!(just my opinion on it and not actual experience) hints? depends on the hints..I mean there are some 'hints' that can be easily mistaken as a joke or a 'tease' between two friends. You know? when a girl acts naturally even when the guy gave really obvious hints, it means that she likes him in some way too, because if the girl really doesnt have any interest whatsoever, she'd be avoiding you, maybe thinking that she doesnt want to get your hopes up...or something like that. but then again, every girl is different. hehehe! I did that too! still remember some incidents..it was in 6th grade, and I would be really early because I walk from home to school, then I saw he was early in going to the classromm too(takes his lunch in school). I usually sit anywhere I like whenever Im early but I remember one time, I sat at his desk (which was directly below the ceiling fan by the way)just so hed be forced to talk to me.^_^ the 'dialogues' were somewhere along those lines you said. can I have a bite? you seriously asked that?? hope she was a close friend.LOL! its usually something like "You want some?" rather than "can I have a bite?"^_^ you're really on my case this time arent ya?? "looking" and "looking out" are two very different things.=p

I knew someone who actually has the same perspective when it comes to admitting their emotions for someone.. they want their feelings to be reciprocated as well.. but, you can't always expect everything to work out on our favor.. Thanks, academic2 for sharing!

Hehe.. ^_^; Such fortune that my life, along with those similar, is like that..

That is true. There's that fear for rejection so they settle for being anonymous. Or even keep that "friend" relationship that has been so far established towards their prospects. That they would favor that over the uncertainties when one really does confess their feelings. Regret and so on.