Is he just irresponsible or is she just dumb??? Or it could be love...

It seems that he wants a mother instead of a girlfriend or wife.he needs to stand up and be a man. To share the responsibilities of their household.If he wants a maid than let him go to a free motel where he doesnt have to do anything except just lay around and be waited on hand and foot. Like i said free.because he is to lazy to get a job.

i think its high time she should just dump him. she is just earning and paying for him! My God! then why is he there? just to enjoy life in wife's money? this is not love taht i believe.

I think that she is dumb. It is one thing if he was at home with the daughter taking care of her all day and helping out a round the house. Sounds like he is just using her. Hopefully, she will wake up and see the truth.

He is irresponsible and she is dumb too. If he is sitting at home doing nothing she should not have to pay for child care when he should be taking care of his own daughter. Sounds like he is really taking advantage of her. Even if he can't cook passing a vaccum cleaner and duster around will not kill him.

This woman truly needs to open her eyes. DO not get me wrong I am not against the woman working and the man staying home. But who does he think he is. Not helping with anything. and she has to pay someone to watch their child while he lays at home. he really needs to shapeup and ship out. Apparently the woman can stand on her own two feet because shes doing it all by herself already. Hes just bringing her down, she needs to set things straight to him

Having a baby sitter is not unusual. You have to be careful here with double standards. Many stay at home mom/housewives hire full time child care when they are home and it is not frowned upon. The cooking on the other hand, is another story. Why isn't he cooking or at least bringing home take out? Unless, she enjoys cooking and it is a way for her to relax.