i am hurt!

Philippines
January 26, 2008 3:00am CST
I truly loved this guy but he cheated on me. I felt so upset about it. He is the meanest person I know. After all what I've done for him, he just fooled me. I can't believe that stupid people really do exist! They don't have any conscience at all. What's with their minds? Are they not afraid of karma? Why can't they resist temptation? Why do they have to fool a lot of people eventhough they were treated well?
13 responses
26 Jan 08
hello, welcome to the club and welcome to the real world. i just checked your profile, it say ur 22. u still have a life time of heart ache and broken hearts to mend if you keep thinking this world is a better place to live in. Best way to get over this is the HATE him more. I am so sorry you had to taste life, but this is how it is. As for ur EX, assuming hes ur EX, dont do anything to him. the wrost is yet to come for him. but if u cant wait..well then god help him. because YOU might be his Karma. Hang in there and dont loose your mind. not just yet ;)
1 person likes this
• Philippines
27 Jan 08
yeah i'm still young! yoohoo! I just lift this up to God..I know He wont leave me. =)
• Pakistan
26 Jan 08
Remember this for the rest of your life dear. Love is a very precious thing don't wast it on those fools who don't know the value of such a pricless thing. some people love for the reason of beauti some love for the reason of wealth but when you love some one for that person loves you is LOVE in reality. Don't worry dear some day you will find the right kind of person that deserves your love. till than no more sorrow or gilt just be happy and keep smiling. cause life is what you make of it. Sincerely Yours Naeem
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
Yeah there are a lot of cheating pigs out there, but not all men are like that. This whole experience is God's way of telling you "Hey, you're with the wrong man, see? I have a better one for you coming up". Take it as a learning experience, one that will make you stronger and wiser.
• Philippines
27 Jan 08
Thanks for lifting up my spirit. Yeah i agree with what you said, "i was with the wrong man" and I have accepted that. God is good!
@moondan (712)
• China
10 Mar 08
Don't be sad for that person.It is not worthiness.The bad person is the foolest one in the world.If the have conscience and believe the karma,they wouldn't serve the devil to people.I believe karma,so i surely believe that if they did something bad to other,they must be treated as the same way. cheated by good friends or anybody i think much of is the best hurt for me in my life.I had also been cheat by my best friend who is a boy. I think you are lucky to know he is the bad guy.time will wash out your wound.you will be well one day.To be brave,to be good,there are better day for you.
• United States
27 Jan 08
Sometimes people just don't think before they do things. the things you did for him may have nothing to do with it, unless you were holding them over his head. Temptation comes at our weakest times and then it overcomes, especially when things such as a relationship are going well. As life goes on, well my life I tend to hurt the people I care about the most. It does not make what happen to you right. I don't know you, but I'm sorry that you were hurt. In time you will heal, A relationship is 50/50 not 20/80 or 60/40. Bye for now
• United States
27 Jan 08
Sometimes people just don't think before they do things. the things you did for him may have nothing to do with it, unless you wre holding them over his head. Temptation comes at our weakest times and then it overcomes, especially when things such as a relationship are going well. As life goes on, well my life I tend to hurt the people I care about the most. It does not make what happen to you right. I don't know you, but I'm sorry that you were hurt. In time you will heal, A relationship is 50/50 not 20/80 or 60/40. Bye for now
@subha12 (18441)
• India
26 Jan 08
look this is life. actually there are a lot of cheats all over. I must say a so called very good friend cheated me like this way. He took advantage of me. he asked for money when he wanted, asked for food when he wanted. When I was in the same city, he used to take so much advat=ntages and behaved very good. But after that he started avoiding me and then acted very badly with me. we are not in contact. It also hurted me very much.What to do. Life goes on. I know he will be ounished by someone up there.
• Philippines
27 Jan 08
hey, sounds familiar... why?? that was the same thing heppened to me 2years ago.. he's my first real boyfriend we've been together for 2yrs and 6 months.. but i didn't know that he had another girl for almost a year!!! how rude!! well, i was hurt.. and it made me feel frustrated..that all my grades failed.. a year after i met this guy..now he's my boyfriend..we've been together for 4months.. and i'm happy that my first boyfriend cheated on me.. coz if he didn't i will not be able to meet louie.. and by the way,you can;t force yourself to forget something..because the only reason why we forget is when a better memory has taken its place... move on girl! being bitter wont help you! get well soon ^_^
@roberten (3128)
• United States
26 Jan 08
There is no good reason why, it just is. Count yourself lucky that you found out he is a cheat before you invested too much into the relationship. The future depends upon you. I am sorry you are hurt.
27 Jan 08
Usually people think if we love someone, he/she will naturally love us. But it's not always the case. We love someone not because he/she loves us, but because we love him/her. Don't complain if that person doesn't love you. Love is not mutual. Love is one-way. If the person loves you, you will feel it.
• China
27 Jan 08
hello, i am sorry to hear that. well, actually i have the same experience of you . to be honest, i was so upset in the past, but i have overcomed.hey dear, what i would say to you is that it is life,which is bitter and sweet.you did the right thing ,and you have the sense of responsibility for love. u r a good girl.u dont need to be sad or angry for that guy. come on ,baby ,be happy for life,there is still many good boys u will meet in the future. i hope u will be better soon.
@hotsatya (240)
• India
27 Jan 08
hi, hazellou love is very beautiful but not for everything because in present time its become only timepass for guye in this modern time "i think" true love will find after very struugle, if you know about him why you fell in love with him, i know love is very sestative think its happened. whtevevr leave them and you should come in your present life try to leave him.you don't talk to him, if he has a true love feeling about you so he will be realize his mistake and he will come. he is not alone in this world lots of people come in your life. but i sajes you that you should tey to leave him. because meanset persone nothing leave to other.you think about all this deeply.
@zydtchb (32)
• China
27 Jan 08
i am sorry to hear that,but it is the real world,who you can depend on is yourself, and it is not need to be sad for a cheater,maybe having a vacation will be helpful for you, "love" is just a word,i think you will be better soon,and i hope you will find a good guy,anyhow,there are still lots of good guys in the world.