do you really mean it?

South Korea
January 26, 2008 4:59am CST
its hard for me to say im sorry, if i know im right...and if i say sorry i really mean it..how about you?
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@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
27 Jan 08
When I know I am right I don't deny that the other person doesn't like what I said or did. I can always say that I'm sorry they feel hurt, I'm sorry they are upset, or whatever. I've learned over the years that I don't have to be right all the time. Often there is more than one "right" answer or more than one "right" thing. Saying "you may be right" or "that's something to think about" is often a way to de-escalate a situation that isn't worth losing a friend over.
• South Korea
28 Jan 08
i appreciate it
@ceolight (82)
• China
26 Jan 08
Nowderdays we often say sorry to others, and I have ran into the same question as you, but I think sometimes the result is more important than the truth. Although you are right, you need to keep a good relationship with others.
• South Korea
27 Jan 08
youre right too
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
26 Jan 08
I dont like sorry at all. When someone offers it, i get realy mad. For me sorry is short hand, for alright i did something i shouldnt have done, but it isnt important so lets pretend its all ok, well frankly sorry does not cut it with me. If it can all be put right by saying sorry we would live in a perfect world. Things can only be put right by restorative actions and this takes time. Best to work hard at not doing the things that make you feel like saying sorry, much more effective than a glib, meaningless word blessed be
• South Korea
27 Jan 08
thanks