Loss of Lust

I get aggravated by those types of studies. They are generalizations. No two people are alike, no two marriages are alike. My husband was quite the player when he was single. And he was always wanting it back when he was drinking all the time. Then he lost interest and I was the one who had to keep track and make appointments to ensure I got it at least once a week (I'd be happy with twice a week). By the way, we've been married 10 years, together for 15. Well, last January he started jogging. Then in the spring he joined a gym. He goes every day. He has energy, stamina, lost weight and an increased s*x drive. That's right, he has regained his interest. Losing weight and exercising and made him come alive again. But he is rarely the one that "starts it". It's usually me, though he has had his moments. Everyone is different and I think those studies are just bogus.

Research tells that males are more interested in *** than on other things. so it is common to feel like that. It is not that women doesnot want they want but the timing should be proper like when to ask, what mood they are in etc. Womens are the most complexly built systems around so it is very difficult to understand them.

well.... its a common feeling in every case....the excitement and intensity is more only at the beginning but the progress of it depends on how we take it to be.... So if you getting married only to sleep with your partner then i dont think thats a good idea.... Becouse you get married to the person whom you wanna spend the whole life with.... not with whom we wanna juz enjoy our time....