Do you mind your wife sterile?
By nikki0607
@nikki0607 (75)
China
January 26, 2008 10:47pm CST
If you have marriaged your wife for several years , you still have no child . Then you went to hospital and asked for help . As a result , your wife is sterile . You are stricken hardly at that time .
Then what will do ? How to treat the problem ? Do you mind it ?
4 responses
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
27 Jan 08
Yes, just as my wife would truely mind if i turned out to be sterile, for sure, if my wife was confirmed sterile, I would beg her to have a child outside the marriage-in any case, in my culture, polygamy is permitted-and it even becomes more urgent if a wife does not give forth children.
@nikki0607 (75)
• China
28 Jan 08
oh, really```
I heard 'polygamy' first time .
But i think it may not suit everywhere .
@humbleme (1004)
• India
27 Jan 08
Hello nikki0607,If the husband and wife have deep love relationship, then they should decide if they really want
a baby in their famaly or not, if the answer is yes then without making this issue further complicated they should adopt a child or can think of a baby from a surrogate mother.Thanks.
@nikki0607 (75)
• China
28 Jan 08
yeah ``` i think adopting a child is ok.
many couples soult the problem in this way.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
28 Jan 08
I'm getting married in 4 months and I'm GETTING sterilized as soon as possible. If having a kid is more important to you then your wife, then I think you have no business being married.
@loudhummer14 (535)
• Philippines
6 Feb 08
my wife and i had been married for almost 5 years now and we've been trying to have a baby -- no luck comes. we never went to see a specialist. i'm proud to say that this hasn't been a problem. we love each other for who we are. we don't need anything else to complete our love because it is already complete as far as we know it. you can always go for adoption. never ever blame your wife for something she didn't ask for in the first place. she didn't ask to be sterile. she want to give you a child but then circumstances just won't allow it. let love live on
