Can we Be Just Friends???
@deltagammanick (264)
India
January 26, 2008 10:57pm CST
i've known this guy right from my chilhood, and for some years i was totally mad in his love but then at that time he didn't respond the way i used to feel and gradually we parted our ways a couple of years back...But now he is all caring and trying to flirt with me which i don't uderstand "why now"...I've been in and Out of various relationships till now and i kinda feel something still for him now but i think: Should It be Like this always"The Just Friends Type" Or "should i make a move or let him make a Move"??
Help me out ppl...i'm in a sort of dilemma nd havn't stopped thinking for this over a month or so!!
7 responses
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
27 Jan 08
If you are not yet committed, please fall heads and heels over for this guy-remember her was your childhood hero who has just rediscovered that you are truely for each other-it takes a bit of time for love to mature my dear deltagmmanick, when it does, you wont mistake it-now is the time that it has, with your childhood love, dont let him go, you will miss your entire world,
@deltagammanick (264)
• India
27 Jan 08
thank u so much...You have made me feel confident about what I was thinking!!
@slavezero (833)
• Philippines
27 Jan 08
Well, let him maker the move. Your job is to figure out if he is just flirting with you or serious with what he is doing. You just have to be careful. If he is serious with you then I dont see any reason why you wont give him a chance. maybe he just realize realize that he likes you after seeing you again. As long as you and him are free... then there is nothing to be worry about.
@deltagammanick (264)
• India
27 Jan 08
thanx a lot for ur support ...that's what i am trying for the last 2-3 weeks just to figure out what he is upto!!
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
27 Jan 08
I think its best if you wait for him to really show you what he feels..there are times that the guy gets scared if the girls shows too much emotion for the guy..and most of the time, they tend to go away.. ive been through that and i just let him do his way...then evntually, i got the guy ive been waiting for a long time already. since he is now vying on having you..make him do a little chasing..sometimes guys like challenges...
@bushfiredmx (111)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
Why not make him MAKE the move? Just give him the chance to prove himself worth of your love. You'd never know if he's really serious about you if you won't let him try. If your asking why now? Maybe it just took him a while to realize what's he's missing. Its worth taking the risk if you're really in love with him. If you don't take the risk, you just might lose him again.
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
27 Jan 08
I think that in some relationship there is nothing like making a move first or second. Love is God's best gift to us and so if you really love him you should make a move. But you should make it clear that it should not be like meeting and parting very frequently I mean you should tell him that you belive in long term relationship.
However, as far as he is concerned, may be he has some thing like physical attraction for you and that results in his trying to flirt with you. Here you have to be careful because this type of relationship may hurt you when he has lessened that physical attraction for you.
