Do I really spend that much time here?

Actually in all honesty I don't see you that much on Mylot my friend, which is disappointing, not that I am saying this because I am hinting about my discussions, far from it, I value your responses and discussions and as one of my good friends it's always nice to see you around when I respond to others I see your words of wisdom. I spend a lot of time on Mylot, I guess I am an addict in a way LOL, but more so for contact with my friends and some great banter, yes therapy too, as Mylot has always been my saving grace and my counseling pool to come to when I'm feelind down or want to spread happiness.

LOL - I seem to go in spells, sometimes I live here on myLot but then I'll go weeks I'm not here at all. But yes, from your amount of posts I would say you spend a good share of time here - I've never really noticed it of you so much though.

I wish to understand this ranking. I think that higher number is 16, depends on number of discussions we start or respond to. This is very good question, yes we do spend that much time here...lol

Mylot is a hobby just like any of your other hobby's. I really don't think what we think is important here, it's all about how you feel and if your mylotting is taking away from your other commitments and ventures. To answer your question, no I don't feel you are around all of the time, in fact there are times I really miss you. When my life gets busy, and life gets in the way of my "hobby" its okay because it will be here when I get back. In fact I think you are a very well rounded, level headed young woman that knows exactly how to make her life move in the direction that she wants. So my question would be do you feel you are on line to much? Does your husband and son feel neglected? I would dare say they both feel very loved and well taken care of.

Hello lecanis!:-) I am not that active myself on mylot for few months now, so I can't really comment on your activity in recent months. But, as for previous months, I didn't see you as always being on mylot. In fact, sometimes, I used to wonder (when I was active and didn't find you people online) and got worried that why you and other friends aren't coming online. It had to do with health concerns of yours and other friends. I used to wonder if you and other friends are ok. I can remember that sometimes, you didn't come online for a whole couple of days, you were usually either absent or almost inactive on mondays, right? As for your number of posts, you have been a member here for a year now and I can see some others who became member after you or even me and they have more posts to their credit than yourself. And topping the interest categories can only be attributed to your positive inputs, intelligence and honesty. So, in conclusion, I wouldn't say that you spend too much time here but that you spend quality time here!:-)

well your on more than me. when I was active it seemed like you were on about the same not too much you jsut have long answers all the time and lots of answers to your posts what is key on here is answers to your posts.thats where the money is. if i dont post my own i only get less moeny then on the days i post something myself then i can not be on and as long as ppl answer i still get money.

lol..I don't know about you...but I sure spend a lot of time here. I think high rankings depends on the responses you have given to discussions under that interest. You probably responded to most of the discussions under that interest in the little time you manage to be here (well, obviously those are discussions on something that is your interest..you would prefer to respond to that than to others that don't interest you). Personally, I don't feel you are always around...but I don't think anyone I know is around all the time either....hmmm..come to think of it...yes, there are a few who I think are here all the time....but you don't seem to be one of them (to me).

looking at your response figure i should think you spend alot of time on here. I'm struggling to get to 500 and even to reach £10 so i can cash it in. You must be good at talking. Perhaps you can give me some hints on how to get better at these discussions.

Hi, lecanis! I must say, even before you added me as a Friend, I rember seeing you around here. I noticed your avatar and your name, I guess. I did seem to stumble upon many of the same discussions as you do. That said, you sound a whole lot busier than I am. I too have a husband, kids, hobbies... and a sporadic freelance career. I don't work full time outside the home, and I actually have about 9 hours a week to myslef when my son is at preschool. Even still, I can't seem to make the $!0 payout! I have been a Mylot member for over a year and I've only made payout twice. This last time, I'm not even at 8 dollars yet and it's been at least 6 months since I made a payout! So, if you're actually making money on here then you MUST be spending more time here than I do. I'd say I spend maybe a half hour a day, maybe a little less on some days. Maybe you post really good discussions that get a lot of responses. I still don't know what the criteria is to make money on here, I just know that I don't make any and I just do it for fun! I'm curious as to how much time a day you spend on Mylot.

Hi Lecanis... I find this type of question hard to answer because it really is subjective. When ponder...am I "too" anything how can anyone answer that for them? When people put a hypothetical question about being; "Too old to be doing this or that...too fat to wear this or that...spend too much time gaming...or whatever the "too" category is" my response is always..."As compared to what?' There are always those who are bigger/smaller/older/younger/play less/more and for me the bottom line is...what works for you? In regard to the time you spend on Mylot and how you have presented other interests and life responsibilities. From the limited amount that I know about you from my 'perspective' your wheel of life sounds pretty balanced to me. I think 'too much' of whatever it is comes at the point where 'it' detracts from whatever else we are neglecting. Also when the 'too much' begins to detract rather than enhance our quality of life in other areas. Couple that with the point the 'too much' reduces rather than our interactions with others. Raia

lol I wish I understood the ranking system. I don't have any idea how it works. I don't even know if 1 or 14 is better. I don't perceive you as always being on my lot. Obviously from your post count you have posted a lot. You've been a member for over a year now though so thats pretty good. I don't wonder at the amount of time I spend here... but I do worry at times. lol I checked your profile. I thought you were way older than you are.

Well one of us is here a lot, because I always see you around when I am here. I'm not sure what that means. May be we just both write real fast and it seems that we are here for a long time because we have written so much. That has to be it. Because I have a lot on my plate too. A very different plate than yours though since my kids are grown and I ditched the spouse.lol. Shalom~Adoniah

I think that I dont spend enough time on mylot, as I am only moving so far ahead and I have not been here that long. When I get up in the thousands like you I may question whether or not I am spending too much time here, but right now it is definitely not enough.

LOL. Same here. But its quality that counts more. Maybe you just wrote really good posts in the other categories without noticing it because you wrote a lot about certain topics but don't really post a lot in quantity? 0: I dunno there could be several factors lol. I haven't been on that much and my earnings show it. .I was hoping to reach at least a dollar this week but there's always next. But for me it does feel like I spend a lot of time here because as an older teen. When I'm procrastinating, ever since I heard about myLot I'd go here to post about random stuff in different categories that it belongs under. Its a great way to kill time and can also improve your typing skills if you need practice. (; I grew up with computers though so unless I'm aiming for a high WPM I don't think I need to but people are always looking for fast and accurate typists. .xD. MyLot is an addiction. . .

what spiritual practices might those be?

no im not here that much but do you really make soem good money responding to these posts

Hello my friend, I used to spend my whole waking day at myLot lol but that was in the past. I think as long as you enjoy it, it does not matter if you spend "too much" time here. :P

I do not think you spend as much time here as some people. I think you do not watch much TV we all have our hobbies. I think for your myLot is yours. Don't you think it is good to be able to make money while enjoying yourself. Do not worry if you are here to much.

i recognise seeing your animation avatar before and i think i have answered a few of your discussions, and i am new here, so yeah i guess. i dont mean it is a bad thing, i just see your discussions and responses around often.

Haha,I am new here. I registered today and I have spent half an hour.