Do you forgive or forget

United States
January 27, 2008 11:35am CST
I know that being hurt and betrayed in a relationship is the worst thing. you trust someone so much and then you have them hurt you. although you love them, do you forgive and take them back, just so to make you happy for the now, or do you let them go and think of the long run ahead?
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alnilam
@alnilam (969)
• United States
27 Jan 08
I forgive many many times. I consider myself a forgivefull person. But i never forget.
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Stephanie5
@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
27 Jan 08
I suppose the 'right' thing to do is think of the long run. If they have done something that you don't think you can ever truly get over, then I say no, don't take them back. If it was something that wasn't such a big deal after all, then try to make things work.
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lucgeta
@lucgeta (924)
• France
27 Jan 08
I do forgive and try to forget or act like I've forgotten. Sadly many people will only take advantage or think you are weak and comes back again. If it's someone you love the best is let go for your own good.
m3mema5
@m3mema5 (90)
• United States
28 Jan 08
No I woluld not take them back for they broke the trust in the relationship. For If you took them back even thou they would say they would never do it again you couldnt trust thenm not to do it again and agaian.