Should I get a new job?
By AngelNicki
@AngelNicki (412)
United States
January 27, 2008 1:22pm CST
Ponder this dilemma.
Say that six months ago, you took a job that sounded like a wonderful opportunity. It seemed like a fun and interesting job, the pay wasn't bad, the coworkers were nice, and you'd be provided with great insurance. At the time when you took the job, your employer understood that you wanted to work part-time, and schedule your hours around your school schedule because you go to school full-time.
However, as time wears on, things start to go badly. Your boss wants you to work more and more hours, and it interferes with your schooling. You're expected to work every weekend and every holiday, missing out on valuable time with your family. Your boss even schedules you for hours when she knows you're going to be at school, and then expects you to either come in or find a replacement for that day!
You put your foot down and write out exactly what your availability is and how many hours you'd like to work. Your boss agrees to it.
But then, suddenly, your hours get cut down to about ten hours a week, leaving you barely enough money to live on, and making you ineligible for the insurance plan.
Plus, the coworkers you got along with most have left the job, and the new people are distant to you or boss you around.
Now, consider that you are offered a different job. You would be able to work hours that cooperate perfectly with your school schedule, leaving your weekends and holidays open and giving you plenty of extra time to study. You would be doing something you are passionate about doing, the very thing you are studying in school to do. You would also be making up to five dollars MORE an hour than you earn at your current job. However, this job does not offer insurance or any other benefits.
What would YOU do?
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5 responses
@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
27 Jan 08
Take the new job and get insurance through your school. Almost all schools offer insurance at a very low price. My daughter gets her car and health insurance through her school and it is very reasonable.
Get out of that idiotic situation now, and start doing something that is good for you. Your grades are going to start slipping if they haven't already. Your schooling is very importatant. Your future depends on what you are doing right now. Get it right, and the rest of your life will be better because of it!
Good luck!!
Shalom~Adoniah
@AngelNicki (412)
• United States
28 Jan 08
Thanks for the note! My school does offer insurance but its not very good... However, what I think I will do is take care of all my pressing medical situations while I still have the good insurance, and then I can just switch to the school's insurance!
@starangel (414)
• United States
28 Jan 08
you need a job that will work around your school hours. talk to your boss. and because you are in school and have a job, you can't expect a whole lot of family time right now. just know that it will pay off in the end when you graduate and have an awesome job because of it. this is a hard time, and you don't need it to be any harder. I would take the new job if my current boss wasn't willing to follow through w/ what was promised. you don't need the added stress. Even if you do have to work a weekend or a holiday, it's not permanent. holidays come every year. you are going to school to be better. sometimes you gotta suck it up and get through it, but you don't have to put up w/ it if you have an alternative, which you do. that extra $5 can help w/ medical stuff or you could get medicaid, which is free if you qualify. as far as friendships at work...it's just a bad idea. never make a best friend at work. eventually, it turns out bad. You can be nice and all that, but always make sure your doing your best at your job. Don't get involved w/ the gossip or whatever. and it's nice to have friends, but if you're as busy as you say you are, you probably would be better off spending as much spare time w/ your family whenever you have the chance. i don't know what you mean by family because i don't know if you have kids or not. i have kids, and they come first, so it's easy for me to say friends are fine, but not more important than family. and if i have a limited amount of time, that's going to my kids. my friends can chill and if they're real friends, they'll understand.
@AngelNicki (412)
• United States
28 Jan 08
True about friends from work. I never did spend any time outside of work with the people I became friendly with. I just don't have the time to add a lot of new people into my life! The friends I have outside of work have children too and we are often able to do things together in whatever spare time we have. I also did bring my kids to work with me a few times on the weekends, but that irritated some people!
@k1tten (2318)
• United States
27 Jan 08
Ok, that's just bull to begin with. I would completely quit that job and find another that is more willing to work around your schooling and work with you, not against you. If it was agreed upon and she's cut you down that far then just sticking with that job is going to get you no where at all.
@AngelNicki (412)
• United States
28 Jan 08
Thanks for the advice! I am definitely leaning towards the new job, at this point!
@peisiyi (123)
• China
28 Jan 08
i don't think you should quit the current job you are engaged in .the more difficult situation you face,the more passion you should possess.no body can beat you until you give up strive to prove that you can solve the bad situation.i believe that you are strong enough to conque the trouble in the end ,just go ahead!
@AngelNicki (412)
• United States
28 Jan 08
True, dealing with a bad situation can make a person stronger. If I don't get this other job, maybe I will give my old job another chance for a while longer and see if I can make the situation better on my own!