hummm... not sure how to word this

no ma'am you're not the only one. most people still lingers in the past. i feel sorry for your husband though. you should weigh things first before making a drastic move. people change through the years. before leaving your husband, you should think if your ex-bf is still the same person you feel in love with years ago.

no...you are not alone. We all im sure at one time or another have gotten nostalgic about an ex. It is so easy to forget why we are no longer together to begin with. I don't know but I think you are playing with fire here. I suspect that any advice me or anyone else gives you telling you to stay away from this guy will have any bearing on your choice. Once you start daydreaming about being with someone else, it is so powerful and so hard to get those thoughts out of your head. The only thing you can really do is to break all contact with this guy and focus on your relationship with your hubby. ...easier said than done. This guy has a girlfriend and is flirting with you. That says alot more about him than you are seeing. So does you flirting with hin while married. Could be wrong but I think you'd end up with regrets if you dont put a halt to this before it goes further.

you're not the only who thinks that way. sometimes when we felt that our own husband somehow neglects us, we sometimes find a way to to find a way to make us feel important. this ex of yours makes you feel that you are still important to him, that's why you feel a feeling of importance.. but should you not tell him that you are now married.

in my opionon and expierence is that some women tend to hold onto the past. there are things that upset themnow and they wish that they could change certain areas in there life. some women are afraid of change and prefer to reconcil;e with what they already know... you could want to be with your ex becaue of al the good times you have had or even if it were bd relatisonship youcould be thinking of your life now and certain things your hubby doesnt do or doesnt do well your ex could have done better etc etc.. Im sure tere are many women out there that feel the same way

No, I am sure that you are not. I have an ex that I used to think about a lot. He was not only an ex but a good friend who I care a lot about. I am happily married now and we are still friends. He has actually lived with my husband and I and we are friends.

I am sure you are not the only one. Its a very common thing that happens to many of us. We start missing our past. The best way to get out of this is to get busy with other things (family, work, kids). Keep in touch with your x. But that should'nt mean that you start having an affair with him. Be a friend to him. But at the same time do not forget your responsibilities of a good wife and a mother! Good luck.

i dont think your the only one

If you're not happy in your marriage, I would get out. I have learned that life is too short to stay in a situation that is not making you happy. If you and your ex feel the same way, please don't have an affair, that will end up really badly. Leave your respective mates, and then get together. Be careful though, the grass is not alway greener on the other side. Bottom line, you're not alone wondering what could have been. All I can say is do what makes you happy. If you're happy, the kids will end up happy too.

I'm sorry to hear that your not happy in your marriage, but the truth is that it was wrong of you to call your ex when being married. It can cause you a lot more problems than you are having now and is only going to make you think that you care more about him than you thought you did. You are married, but if you are unhappy then you should leave and divorce him before bringing in another man. i'm not trying to be harsh or mean, but the truth is that you made a commitment to this man that you are married to now and calling an ex and finding out that he's not happy either is not a good thing. Marriage isn't supposed to be taken lightly. It's a sacred bond between two people and God. He's not pleased with what you have done either. I am a Christian, but Christian or not, it was wrong of you to do this. I hope that you can figure things out for yourself. God bless

I'm sure their are quite a few people who feel the way you do. It is natural to still have some feelings for an ex. Especially if ya'll shared a lot. Certain things can trigger those memories. But i think what you need to take into consideration also is the fact that ya'll split up and went seperate ways. So you have to think on what caused that, before you do anything irrational.

Hi! just browing through and read your post. I have been married 17 years and to this day, I still call my ex on his birthday and vice-versa. Its nice to hear an old familiar voice and recall fond memories, but try to keep it in prespective. Your thoughts of giving everything up for him are just a fantasy and provide an escape from your day to day routine. Remember there is a reason he is an EX, and no matter how appealing the thought is, its not going to happen quite the way you imagine. Focus on the positive and build on that. Good Luck!

no ma'am you're not the only one. most people still lingers in the past. i feel sorry for your husband though. you should weigh things first before making a drastic move. people change through the years. before leaving your husband, you should think if your ex-bf is still the same person you feel in love with years ago.

no ma'am you're not the only one. most people still lingers in the past. i feel sorry for your husband though. you should weigh things first before making a drastic move. people change through the years. before leaving your husband, you should think if your ex-bf is still the same person you feel in love with years ago.