Do you care your lover still keep in touch with his/her ex-lover?

it is sticky situation. actually some ex are still friends. just pure friendship is opk. something more than that is not at all accepatable. it can crop some problems.

Basically I feel the same way, I realized they had to keep sort of a relationship because of the kids that were theirs, so in my case it worked out alright,she kept the communication lines open with her ex, and I eventually got to be friends with her ex also!

I don't mind it. I trust my husband as well as he trusts me. I am not jealous to it because I know my husband just treats her like a friend. He won't do anything that will ruin our home, the cost is so high.

Yes I would care. As I would not willingly will want to keep in touch with my ex-lover. So she shouldn't as well. What her intention to keep in touch with her ex-lover anyway? To make me jelous? That's what we guy think.

We have different view with regards to that. But I do think there is nothing wrong if they turned to be friends after they broke, and that is what you need to find out. Sometimes too much trust would lead you to heartache. You should at least be aware, be concerned. Well I really don't know what is the real situation so my opinion might not count. Just follow what you think is right.

I don't have the same idea with you. I hope I can, but it is really too difficult to me . You have done a good job.