whether to tell the truth or not

Philippines
January 28, 2008 3:19am CST
My friend who is somewhat a little flirty had a little affair with her guy friend's friend. She kept it secret from her friend because people suspected he likes her. Recently, her guy friend asked if she ever dated his friend and if they hooked up. She lied and said no. Now she feels bad. Should she tell him the truth?
4 responses
gunlock
@gunlock (55)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
Caught in the middle?.. better tell the truth,.. love should'nt have boundaries.. .
bettyrose20
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
yes, i agree..if he accepts you, then its love that holds..but if not, well there's someone else out there
aman1986
@aman1986 (39)
• India
29 Jan 08
yup she shud tell the truth..lying doesnt helps anycause whatsoeva...first of all she shunt have flirted outside her relation but even if she did she shud tell the truth to both the guys...it would be a big problem if both of them found out from elsewhere..
bettyrose20
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
well, in fairness they arent in a bf/gf relationship..they are friends
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Jan 08
I think if there is no harm in telling the truth, she should go forward. Lies can only give bad results.She should tell the truth. Atfirst it may come out as not so good outcome. in long run its going to help her only.
danzer
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
28 Jan 08
A man and a woman fooling around outside of marriage is a sin in itself. Adding another sin will result to a troublesome and cursed life. What do you want in life, blessing or curse?
bettyrose20
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
well, the two arent married..they are friends...if they are married, thats another matter