What will you do when you feel sad deeply or anger?
By nancy555
@nancy555 (29)
China
January 28, 2008 5:52am CST
What will you do when you sad deeply or anger? Just now i had a quarrel with my young brother as we have different lifestyles, or maybe i have high demand on him, anyhow we both lose our temper! And i don't think it's my fault about it,after that my heart hurt deeply. soon i escaped outside and wandered for hours,blank in mind....
2 responses
@roberten (3128)
• United States
28 Jan 08
Listen more, speak less, and be slow to anger. You can say pretty much anything you want but it is how you say it that matters. Try short direct statements that are low in tone; do not nag nor preach as this usually receives negative responses. Don't sweat the small stuff and don't get in a tug of war over control. Set a positive example in the way you lead your life, this way you lead by example. Be patient and pray always. Do not forget to have a sense of humor, humor can melt the largest of icebergs. However you choose to handle your situation, I wish you the best of luck.
@nancy555 (29)
• China
28 Jan 08
Hiya Roberten, thanks for your incisive suggestions, i know you are right, and i should try my best to control the temper and tone, the way i speak, which are the behaviors of mature. Talking about humor, i think it's inborn, together with wisdom, however it's pity i am away from it,i am serious person. :( anyway i will try to adjust my mind to be positive, and thanks again.
