boyfriend issues

hi bian! i am not sure what you are depriving your boyfriend of. but in any case, you can try improving on yourself...this relationship of yours should bring the best in you. but if this relationship forces you to abort your morals for the sake of your partner's selfish interests, then it is not worth it. restrain yourself and act with wisdom. love has its boundaries and responsibilities. take care and God bless you! :-)

What has he done to cause you to feel this way? If nothing then you need to stop worrying and stop camparing yourself to his past girlfriends. If he has done something to cause you to feel this way then you need to talk to him about it and get it out in the open. either way you should never compare yourself to a pst friend in any relationship. Remember he is with you now and not her.

I think everyone feels self conscious about things like that. Personally, I feel pretty self-conscious about everything. I'm a student who constantly worries that she isn't good enough, a daughter who never feels like she's meeting all expectations, and a girlfriend who's struggling against the odds to make a long distance relationship work. (He had to move due to his job.) Life is nothing but trials, and though I know that in the past my guy has had girlfriends that he has been positively mad for that he was really hurt by the loss of... I know that right now he has me, and if I become one of those people in the future then I guess it's going to happen. I don't live my life today with any expectations for forever. I'd like forever to happen, but if not, I'm not going to think that it's my fault. You can only do what you think is best for you, and best for him. If it's really worrying you, maybe you should talk to him about it. He might not be too keen on talking about exes, but if there is something that he feels you could be doing and you think you're not doing everything you could, maybe actually asking is what you need to do.