Kiss someone that you just met
By bunmi2501
@bunmi2501 (465)
Nigeria
12 responses
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
29 Jan 08
It would all depend on the sitation and how the date went if you went out on a blind date and the date was horrible and the person was horrible....it would defiently be no. But if you went out on a blind date and you really do like the person and the date went really well....then i would think at the end of the night it would be ok to kiss the person! But I guess it just kinda depends on how comfortable you feel with the person during the date and at the end of the day, and you have to be the one to make that call!
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@snoopy04 (718)
• United States
29 Jan 08
It would all depend if the date went well and if there was some sort of attraction. When I havent been attracted to someone or the date just didnt go well then I would accept a kiss on the check but not on the lips. For me a kiss on the lips is very intimate and personael and I have to love and care for him or want to see him again before I would allow a kiss on the lips. But everyone is different.
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
29 Jan 08
My first reaction to this type of situation would be, "No way!" but then when I think about it, if I were really attracted to that particular person and if I knew there was something beyond what we experienced on that first date, I'd definitely allow that to happen. I would let him intiate rather than jumping into something myself, though, and it would have to be after the date was over with, of course. I'm not one to push for something like that and I think the guy should be responsible for initiating the first kiss anyway. This is a very interesting question. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost four years and are pursuing marriage. I haven't gone on a date with another guy since before we were dating, which would've been at least five years, so this discussion took a little thought and imagination! (LOL) Awesome discussion, though.
@shraddhaswnt211 (418)
• India
30 Jan 08
Same Here....I would love to kiss the person on the first date if he's is worth of it...or else just get lost!!!
@crazylife (855)
• United States
29 Jan 08
Well, i would not kiss someone i just met on a blind date on the lips but maybe on the cheek, but everyone is different
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
Actually that's a normal sign of greeting, but it still depends if the person wants or to kiss or be kissed.
Kissing on cheeks are pretty much normal nowadays, or even the touching of each other's cheeks.
I'm a guy, so I guess I'd be glad if someone would do that to me even if that's the only time we've met!LoL
@IddiKlu (176)
• United States
30 Jan 08
That would depend totally on the chemistry. If it was truly outstanding and unmistakable, on both sides, let whatever will, happen.
But that in my experience would be so unlikely, that generally I would say no. That said, I always go by my feelings, not a rule set in stone without qualification. In fact these latter are a turn off for me, when I realize that is being used by the other side. There are no absolutes in life, and I will neither live by any, nor put up with someone who does.
My last kiss on her cheek upon the conclusion of a first date was answered with a soft 'Thank you'. ;-)
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
Hell no!i just met that person so why would I kiss him?Who knows if he's really a bad person?That's so cheap!