Ughhh....Does He Has To Complain SO Much?!?
By lilhotma1
@lilhotma1 (10)
United States
January 29, 2008 5:56pm CST
Ok people...have you ever or is currently with the love of your life and all he/she do is complain? oh im tired i can't get enough sleep, im hungry, theres nothing i want to eat, im bored, the kids keep acting up, or even worse gets mad because your frusrated with his/her actions. I don't know if i can take but i deal with it because this is the love of my life and he means a lot to me. I never thought i would meet my match but i did and im grateful for GOD blessing me with him. But does that mean i have to deal with this. It's draining me and starting to SERIOUSLY tick me. I come home today from class and the first thing he says is " Im gonna go ahead and tell you im going to sleep." I ask why and its because he took a 20 min. nap! What the....? i been gone for 3 hours and you take a 20 min. nap thats your fault. So now i gotta stay up bored by myself until whenever? Ugh!!! But i cant get mad then he gets mad and its just too frustrating. How do i cope with this or better yet fix this?
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3 responses
@anamaria23 (16)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Jan 08
You know, I think that he is that kind of a person. Likes to complain very much..Try to talk to him..I believe you can solve this (btw. I know, it is very annoying..)
@anamaria23 (16)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
30 Jan 08
my boyfriend used to say every day about 50 times..my leg hurts, my head hurts, this..that..but nothing was wrong..it was just...i am not good in english, so...don't know how to say.. he just used to do that to get more attention, and in the end, only thing he did was complain about the things.. one day i talked to him and asked him to try (to try for me) not to say that something hurts him for a day:) now he is not complaining at all..but it was hard, he is ...hipohondar (i hope you understand the word)
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
30 Jan 08
I guess your love is being tested to the limits but then if you persist that love will prevail it will just be committed to it. As to your partner I guess its a matter of communication and I guess a little attention. He may be showing some signs that there are things that doesn't fit in your relationship. What that is I don't know that is why I emphasize talking with him seriously. Maybe find a time when you and him are talking without those ticking moments.
