Does your husband mind what you wear?

@youless (112586)
Guangzhou, China
January 30, 2008 8:43am CST
My husband doesn't mind what I wear. He is good in this aspect. Actually when I just had our baby, he bought me a nice but sexy dress as my birthday gift. Since I had delivered my baby for a short time, so my size is bigger than before and I couldn't wear this dress yet. Later when my figure is back to normal and I am afraid to wear it. As it's sexy, I don't get used to wear it outside:) I know my husband hopes one day I will wear it, but I am still worried about it anyway:)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
31 Jan 08
My husband doesn't mind what I wear either...but he doesn't want me wearing clothes which expose (in public). He hasn't gone right out and said it...but I know he doesn't like it. In India, in traditional families, women are expected to wear saris after they are married....but I wear everything from jeans to skirts to salwars to saris (not regularly because of the little one). I wear shorts at home. I also wear dresses. But when I go to meet my husband's family, I respect them and stick to salwars(which is also acceptable)
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
Salwars is very beautiful dress:)
@SViswan (12051)
• India
31 Jan 08
And comfortable too:)
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@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
31 Jan 08
i would say my husband doesn't mind too but since i myself am not fashionable, can make do with anything, so sometimes he steps in and tells me don't wear that. at times i get pissed as i don't wear sexy and revealing clothes. i'm not comfortable with them. it feels like he's bossing me around. but still, i listen to him and wear what he wants me to. but i definitely won't be happy about it though i won't say anything since i don't want a quarrel to start just when we're going out.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
I usually think woman has a better taste in fashion than man. So your husband makes a mistake to have a doubt of your selection:)
@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
31 Jan 08
grins, i think that way too. though sometimes i don't blame my husband. hehehe i have a tendency of being too lazy, even my younger sister scolds me. she's the one who's more into fashion than me so usually when i do go out, i go with her or my husband if i want to buy clothes or stuff since they'll definitely have things to say about my choice. ;) i don't mind so long as they don't overdo it and all.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I do not think he takes much notice as to what I am wearing. Though if I were to dress immodestly or in britches I think he would take notice and perhaps have a concern over it. not sure, I have not tried that... lol.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Mar 08
So try it one day and give him a surprise:)
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
8 Mar 08
My husband also doesn't really mind what I wear. I dress fairly conservatively, so he really doesn't have to be concerned. He has never told me that he doesn't like what I am wearing, but he does commpliment me if he thinks I look nice.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Mar 08
Your husband knows how to make his wife happy:)
@laurika (4532)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Yeah he sometimes mind, but very very little. The most I mind about hsi clothes, when he wear some crazy combination like sport pants and with them dressy shoes. I go crazy from him sometimes. He mind just about few of my shirts, he said they are out of fashion, but i think he knows nothing about it. lol
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Mar 08
I think women know more fashion than men:)
• Australia
4 Mar 08
I dont have a husband yet (will have one in a few months time). Anyways my fiancee doesnt mind on what I wear. He trust that I have good taste in clothes, and will wear whatever is suitable, and comfortable for me. As for sexy things, depends on what would you say sexy? If the sexy is in a nice way, yes I do wear for parties, dates with him etc2. Of course I wouldnt wear clothes that are tooo sexy and making me looks cheap.. :)
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Mar 08
It is so nice to hear that. You are a wise girl:)
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
3 Mar 08
I husband would object if i wear too revealing clothes when i go out. He wants me to be in decent clothes. Thats all and i too am happy with this. He lets me buy the best with only one thing to be kept in mind decent.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Mar 08
That's nice.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
31 Jan 08
LOL some of my outfits may not be what my husband would necessarily choose for me but to be honest with you I could really care less...He's my husband not my mother and I'm a grown woman..I'll wear what I want when I want and thats that ;-) AND he knows it :-D
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
Right, just be yourself:)
• India
3 Mar 08
s its a great issue in our country
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Mar 08
Thanks for your reply.
• Philippines
11 Feb 08
I don't have a husband but I consider the love of my life as my husband.He doesn't mind what I wear.But he minds how people look at me when I wear certain clothes.He wants me to be his and his alone.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Feb 08
Thanks for your response.
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
i am a husband, and i dont mind what my wife wants to wear. i only mind what she wear when we go to church specially when i find her clothes very unformal for the church. but on other occassions or going to the mall i dont mind. she knows what to do with that and she doesnt wear to revealing clothes either.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Feb 08
You are still a nice husband:)
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
4 Feb 08
Hi youless, my husband won't bother about what I wear. Maybe because I wear jeans and t-shirt most of the time. I only wear 'sexy dress' for occasion like dinners.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Feb 08
I am afraid to wear sexy dress, to be frank:)
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
31 Jan 08
My husband doesn't mind what I wear either and likes it when I dress up in something that is a little lower or higher than I normally wear. I'm kind of a conservative dresser. I think it's neat that your husband brought a dress for you. Mine wouldn't dare being afraid that I wouldn't like it or that it wouldn't fit. The funny thing is that he actually remembers what clothes I do have so I can never "sneak" anything into my wardrobe. Anyways, get dressed up, get a baby sitter and have some quality time with your man. You both deserve it.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Feb 08
My husband will never remember my clothes. Some of my clothes are new for him:)
@yannycui (376)
• China
22 Feb 08
My ex did. He didn't want me to show my beauty to others. I should get her permission before I bought every cloth and have a try at home before I went out in that dress. It made me incomfortable.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Feb 08
On the contrary, I just hope my husband will buy more nice new clothes.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 08
As long as I wear decently he has no objection to my choice of clothing. He feels a woman has the right to choose whatever clothing she wishes. Of course, it’s the instinct of a woman to wish to be beautiful all the time. He always accompanies me to the boutiques in the malls to pick my own favorite attires. Also he will suggest the most suitable fashion for me. I really appreciate him for his understanding and caring behavior.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
He is a very good husband:)
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
31 Jan 08
I normally do not interfer with my wife's attire. If she asks for my advice then I surely tell her, what suits her best and in which dress she looks more beautiful and attractive.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
If you praise your wife much more, she will be happier:)
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
31 Jan 08
No my husband doesn't mind what I wear also. I pick and choose what I wear.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
That's good.
31 Jan 08
Mine doesn't mind too. BUt sometimes especialy when we go to his relatives as he know them well he ask me gently to don't wear anything transparent or too short. They are very conservative in this.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
You always look pretty no matter what you wear. I know your husband knows this very well:)
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
31 Jan 08
yes he looks like my father, they always check my clothings before i go..
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
Oh, daughters don't like to listen to their dads anyway:)
@jayie35 (67)
31 Jan 08
GET THAT SEXY DRESS ON........I try hard to look my best it is only for my husband but when ever we go out i always wear something sexy and i am not a size zero but i am very confident dont put that dres to the back of your closet hang on the door and set a goal to when you WILL wear it...........
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 08
I appreciate your encouragement:)