big brother/big sister-in-law problem!
By ladylily29
@ladylily29 (323)
United States
January 30, 2008 5:22pm CST
You see my oldest brother married a snot,really and truely, she thinks she is the smartest and above everyone unless she choses to be friends with someone,she has alot of connections if you know what I mean, her family is everywhere and knows everyone, well, my parents are getting older, Lord knows I want them to live forever but I know that wont happen.But this woman seriously hated me from day one of meeting me, she has tried to turn everyone against me,even my parents, she has mouthed off and my dad hass put her into place, as I have, she refers to meas the "W----" who lives under the hill,(I live below my two brothers,next to my parents house.) and that is to who ever listens.But she has made her comments to my other sis-in-law that my older brother is the one who gets to get everything when our parents pass on, that he is thier overseer.My parents swears that is not true, but I don't know. I beleive my parents.She has said when they die,my brother(the second one not her hubby) will be ok and his family,they will keep thier place, but as for the "W----"under the hill,her and her heathen kids will be out on thier butts.My parents don't believe she said that.But I know she is that way.Does anyone know if this is possible? Can she do that, and him?My parents have deeded my brothers land, but my home and my place I live at is still all my dads property.And he wont sign over a deed or the title to my trailer to me or heir it down through my kids lines. I am afriad every time my parents gets ill, and they have been alot lately, seriously ill. Heart problems and so on.Also is it possible that she could show proof that she has taken them to docter appointment and such, that she and my brother will be intitled to something more? I really don't know alot about law,none to be truthful. I want to plant a big flower garden, build a new porch and fix up a patio out back, but if I have a chance of losing my home and my kids home, then I can't afford to do so. Anyone,please help, or at least give me some sound advice.And I will say this woman is manipulative in every evil way there is.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
30 Jan 08
She is probably so lonely you wouldn't believe it. Even though she knows a lot of people, when it all comes down to it she isn't happy. And you know how the saying goes "Misery loves company".
As for your legal affairs, I would ask your parents if they might put something in their will about your home staying on the property. My sister lives on my mother's property and the rest of us kids could care one bit. But if you think it may become a problem you should address the issue, get it put in writing and notarized.
@ladylily29 (323)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Well, I have addressed the issue ,over and over, I sound like a broken record. They don't have any type of will and don't want one either.Why ,I haven't any idea.This woman has a kick butt job, travels and does so much, as for friends, she has alot of them,She is always having people over. Hers another bit of the story too, she wont LET my brother speak to me,wave hello or look my direction or my kids.She is that type of woman.Once he confided in my boyfriend he would get rid of her but she'd take everything he's got and she has the power to do it.So I don't know.She has it out for me and my kids.And the only ones who knows it besides me is my other brother and his wife, but they are two face type of people so I just don't know.My parents believe in them alot, but not me for some crazy reason.I have been there for them, I clean for them ,cook for them,run errands for them, and take my mom to her regular docter appointment, grow thier gardens for them and all.So what does she do for them?Takes my mom to the heart docter appointment in another city which I am afraid to drive, and she make all thier important phone calls for them.But there some more of the story.
@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
31 Jan 08
I would be a little concerned that your Father will not deed the trailer over to you. He should at least deed it to you in his will.
I think you need to start looking for better accomidations right now, just in case something does happen to your parents. You should never count on a will anyway. You need to make your own way in life not depend on your parents. I never got a dime from any memeber of my family. Quite the opposite. I have paid for the burial (or at least most of each one) of every member of my family. They are all gone now except my own two daughters.
There was money left to members of the family, but I did not get any of it. A half sister was always there with a lawyer to grab it all. I never bothered to fight her she was not worth the fight.
Shalom~Adoniah
