Do men prefer working women?
@blakshmanakumar (2)
India
January 31, 2008 12:09am CST
Times are changing and the minds of people are alos changing, but 'men will always be men' More or less men remain with their same mentality. They will always want a wife who will cook for them and at the same time be smart and a good life partner.Earlier men were very adamant about the fact that thier wives should not work and take care of children.Thus men have been very choosy in choosing their wives from itme immemorial. some men are also of the opinion that highly educated and qualified women do not make good and homely wives.
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@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
I think men would really want a wife who can cook, clean house, serve them like a king...but most of all, they need smart women who cannot only help them inside their homes through household chores but in other aspects of their family life. Who would want a wife who is only useful as a housewife right? Most men would want their wife to excel in as many field as they, provided that their family comes first.
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
3 Feb 08
yes, my wife is a great cook as she has worked in and ran and even owned restaurants..but some "fool American women" told my wife..."honey, you don't have to wait on your hushand" and now she don't...well, maybe on holidays..but that is because in the US things have gone to hades..my mother always had a good meal on the table at 12 noon and 5:30 p.m. ..and this was something we took for granted..but now..??? its not even an option..so i just take care of myself..in the long run its ok...i can cook..and now i am leaner as I only cook foods that are healthy and non fattening...but i still miss the early days..sometimes...but i found out you can't always get what you want...lol
@jack_bhargava (414)
• India
31 Jan 08
I thin in current scenario Men prefer workable women means independent women...
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@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
3 Feb 08
smart women are always going to find success..but not always find happiness as this is relative...
i think most women still do not have the equality as men do in the work place..and I have seen many women who were my boss and I did ok working for them...i am retired and studied nursing training to be an aide..to work in as a Respite in the private home..and my last interview the women owner asked.."do you have any problem working for a women?" ...after all these years and many different jobs I am surprised that this question even come up..but I guess there is a reason..
No, as long as the women is savy in her job..I do not have a problem working for a women...an independent women has to work twice as hard then the men counterpart...and yes, I will vote for Hilary Clinton..as not only am I a Democrat but I want the best person for the job..Amen
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
3 Feb 08
the average man does not look at his future wife/girlfriend and think..boy she has a nice mind..or a good paycheck...but that is just my opinion as there is nothing that is abolute in this world..
@sergeantrom (5721)
• United States
29 Feb 08
I think men today want their wives to work because they are not afraid to admit they need help. Its less burden on men if both of them work. They can achieve things faster and be more happier.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
2 Feb 08
Hello,kumar! in our times {40 years back there were a few working ladies available for marriage for which i could not get a working lady partner though i had a strong desire.but with the spread of women education more and more ladies are now available for work.so now a days many prefer to marry working ladies.those who prefer to live a good life in the society they naturally prefer working lady.but in such marriage both have to sacrifice some thing of their interests and adjust to circumstances.that is most vital.thank you.
@rachy577 (99)
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3 Feb 08
I actually believe that despite everything, despite the supposed emergence of the modern man, underneath it all some men are still very much intimidated by woman who are working or who are successful. Why should a woman not do what she wants with her life? It is her own choice, and should not be defined by the man. However, it is also fair to say that, increasingly, men are starting to see men more as equals, and this is good news for society, and for women.
