the trouble with being in love...

I will stay with the one who is loving me in the present and i a loving him . You never knonw whether the one you have lost is suit for you or not now.The thing i should do is to cherish what i have now.

You really have to know that you are not making a mistake with the one you are with, cos if you still have feelings for your previous love, your current relationship can be affected. So what you can do is if you are really sure that you dont want go back, just do your best to stay away totally.

Hiya nyza..happy day to ya! I have had soem cery bad relationships that eneded badly..although my recent ex before my new love Bobby now..I was head over heals in love with him..and he cheated on me with my best friend..well shes not now..somedays i long and day dream about the wonderful times we shared..but think of everythign taht went wrong..and all the wonderful things happening right now..so i now live by this..dont live in the past..or you wil never have a future..love teh one your with..i think john lennon sang that..and he was right on the money..u will always have your memories..but just remeber why you slpit in the first time and how happy u are in teh new realtionship..i wish u the very bext luck hun..April

i have no longing for my past boyfriends, i have loved them, perhaps but that was in the past. i loved them before and i dont have the same feelings for them at this time. i will not choose to go back to them and love them again because i have already found someone else who is loving me at the present. if i dont love the present and choose to leave him, or if he leaves me... then i guess i will still not go back to the old boyfriends because everything in the past must be left behind. i have to live forwards and find my hapinness with out them.

Hi, In my case the reasons why that old love had been so late if justifiable may be tend to be in the justifiable side. Were as I cannot leave my present love who is still with me trusting me. Hence I will be with my present love and also make clear that the past love if with justifiable reasons are accepted after consulting it with present love and if the present love has no objection.

Hmm. I admit that there's this somebody who wants to love me but then Im anxious because I just lost him last year, i mean physically gone! so for me I think it'll take some time to love this newbie compared to the original :,(