Does appearance and name of a person matter to a relationship?
By subathra
@subathra (3519)
India
January 31, 2008 10:10am CST
If a genuine argument takes place iam certain most peoples views will be appearance and name will not matter for real and worth relationship. When a boy or girl says that there should be good character and qualities of a person will matter to a relationship. It is a white lie.
This society is such. See when a bridegroom looks for a partner he/she needs an attractive and fair girl/boy and never spoken of character and good qualities at first.
If iam asked to elaborate my view about beauty and smartness it just vanishes but character and good qualities of a person comes along with wherever he/she goes and even at death bed it will remain safe like property.
6 responses
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
7 Feb 08
Well it requires maturity to look beyond the looks.Actually we do get attracted to good looks but if the nature & character of that person is not good than attraction goes off.Similarly a good natured person is always attractive.
@amitdua (13)
• India
4 Feb 08
In my opinion, name and appearance should not matter in any relationship. This things which should matter are nature, character, thoughts, qualities or understanding between the two person. Among those understanding is most necessary, because if there is not understanding than other this will not work.
If we talk about society than it depends on person to person what he/she likes. Every individual has different nature, thoughts and priorities. Whether those are right or wrong is a different debate but every person act according to his/her own choices.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Feb 08
Appearance and all thsi good looks may be the first impression, but without good qualoty all of them are void. it is my opinion. Good character is what one should look for.But in case of choice to be made all these appaerance and all comes over quality.
@baebieDARNA30 (788)
• Philippines
31 Jan 08
not at all.. in my case, i accepted my bf totally despite the fact that he's the king of guy that's exactly the opposite of my ideal guy.. but because of love, i loved all his imperfections and his total being.. and i never regret it..
