i am a weirdo....but

I'm not sure I think of that as being horribly weird. It's not like you can help who you fall in love with. My husband and I talk about this sometimes, because we were very different when we were younger. Had we met even just a couple of years before we did, we would have not liked each other at all. Sometimes it's just a matter of growing and learning before you're ready to be with a certain person.