Would you stay or go...
By ladyrainfx
@ladyrainfx (366)
Philippines
February 1, 2008 12:19pm CST
When your partner doesn't seem to interested with you anymore would you stay or rather go. What if love is so strong to keep the feelings? Would you rather get hurt being with him or suffer the burden not being around him anymore?
5 responses
@eyewitness (1575)
• Netherlands
1 Feb 08
Well first I'll have to know for sure if he isn't interested in me anymore. I would start a conversation about it but I would pretend that "a friend has this problem" and see what he''ll say about that and what he would do. If you love him so much maybe you can try to stay with him a little longer if that doesn't work maybe you just need a little break to see whats happens. And to check how great your feelins are towards him.
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
I wish we can start a really very good conversation but everytime I do that he evades. He's very evasive to discussing personal things like that.
Look at me in three years of marriage, I haven't even had a card from him nor flowers that could make me die tomorrow.
Things are getting harder each day, perhaps he's still thinking of his past love. I am longing for the day i'd confront him about it, I should let go..
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
That's one of the problem coz he doesn't tolerate conversations like that. Several times I tried to fish around but he seem very evasive.
I really hope we can converse about it. When its bed time I try to uncover stories but he seem too tired to listen or too busy to and will just join me later.
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
That's one of the problem coz he doesn't tolerate conversations like that. Several times I tried to fish around but he seem very evasive.
I really hope we can converse about it. When its bed time I try to uncover stories but he seem too tired to listen or too busy to and will just join me later.
@alexdra77 (147)
•
21 Mar 08
It is a hard one when you really love someone. personally I would go in case like these i would let my head over ruled my heart.
for me i think it would hurt more being around him knowing he isnt interested anymore, it would be too close for comfort.
@knight_rlc26 (362)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
here in life, there lot of things that we shuld consider inorder to be happy and ld learn have a good relationship with our love ones. but, there are times that on the middle of our relationship, sometimes it come to a point that love fades and one person become strange to us.
For me, i would learn how to let go that person and set her free. Eventhough how i much love her but, in return shes frail in our relationship... i think i would let her go... accept the fact that relationship ended and i will not work anymore.
If i will continue loving some who dont love me anymore is like i was just hurting myself and it will be unfair to me and to her. inorder to live a happy life for the two of us... i will give her freedom...
@joyangz32 (322)
• Netherlands
1 Feb 08
We have to decide together if we go on or separate. I know, it will be hurtful and stressful as well. Whether what I'll do, there's a consequence. I don't prefer one-side relationship. I would rather suffer the burden not being around him anymore. Time will heal.
@ladyrainfx (366)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
Thanks a lot, i'd better cross my fingers for that time to come.
@qhwater (392)
• China
4 Jul 08
for me, i will not stay with him if he is not interested with me any more. i think his heart means more to me than his body. if he is not interested with me, i will not be happy even though he stays with me. right? and he also maybe miss some other ladies, that is terrible!
find a person who loves you the most, not the person you loves the best. i think so.
