Do you hate it when your man stares at another woman?

Philippines
February 1, 2008 8:54pm CST
I must admit it I stare a lot to beautiful women in almost all of my encounter I am very much open about having my man stare at them but sometimes I'd feel different if he starts to really stare at a good one. Do women tend to jealous with the idea?
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• United States
2 Feb 08
I tend to be jealous - and I can get very jealous. But so far, my man has always stared at me. If he does look at other women, it's through photos, and if it's a real woman, he nudges me first, just to tell me that he's looking.
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
Good for you, your man is honest and loving. I am working with a group of men and everytime we'd go out for something, I couldn't help but notice they'll sign each other as if they got excited.
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@katkah (235)
• United States
2 Feb 08
My man is in the National Guard, so we are apart for a long time. He wrote to me his connfession that he looked at some of the women at a game they were taken to. I laughed because he felt so guilty just for looking! It doesn't bother me because it's natural, and I know at the end of the day it's me he's thinking about, me he writes home to, and me he's madly in love with.
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
Oh how cute. you both must be childhood sweethearts. i thoughts it's only on television that one could witness a love affair like that but really i admire both of you most especially your man. that's the most courageous thing he could ever do like admit that he's guilty. I wonder how many men are like yours.
@katkah (235)
• United States
2 Feb 08
He was so cute about it! he was all: I looked, I didn't stare or anything, but I looked. Then he went on about how rude the other men were by their jestures and noises they would make at the ladies, he was discusted by their behavior because he doesn't think women should be disrespected or degraded like that. He's so adorable! Then it was a bunch of how much he misses me & loves me, and can't wait to come home again.
@katkah (235)
• United States
3 Feb 08
We are not childhood sweethearts, but we are soulmates. We've actually only been together for a year and a half, but we feel as if we've known one another all our lives. I wish everyone could have the kind of relationship we share, it is wonderful & I know I'm lucky & I feel very blessed.
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
For me its ok if he stare other woman. i have the beauty and good attitude i do all for him :) so its ok. not at all,not bother me. means i dont feel insecured and am not selfish. if hes happy looking other beauties thats fine. unless you trust thats ok. sometimes jealous but it depends the situation. control your feelings like that,jealous will not help you. have a great day! :)
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
you have such a noble heart, good luck for your love and may you always find serenity in each day that you live. thanks for dropping by jhazie
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
I really can't say I feel jealous, let's just say it's degrading... much worst eh? But you see, I don't mind him looking at all. I mean, we're not together all the time. He can do the staring and looking when I'm not around, I wouldn't know, I wouldn't care. But it is kinda' insulting when he does it while I'm around. I mean, I've experienced been the "other girl" before. A guy, who's with his girlfriend (they were holding hands while dining), stared at me from the other table. I felt irritated and at the same time heard myself saying "poor girl, the guy's definitely a jerk". Now, i wouldn't want another woman take pity on me because my man is staring at her. No way. I don't insult him through staring at other men, I deserve the same respect.
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
Yup i experience that before too i was walking in a mall when suddenly i noticed someone smiling at me. it was very unusual coz i don't even know the guy then he was like flirting already. oh the saddest part there is he's with hi girl i could only hate him for flirting around with the girl. i don't want that to happen to me so i ignored him.
@SweetTrix (1071)
• United States
4 Feb 08
I don't mind if he looks, usually he looks at woman that are dressed all revealing and then makes a comment that she is dressed sl?tty, lol. he tends to point that out a lot since we live on a college campus and bar nights are like "sl?t nights" I guess, it will be freezing outside and girls will wear mini skirt and short dresses, I don't get it. Anyway, looking is just looking, I mean he is coming home with me at night;). Sometimes I even look at some women and say that they are either really pretty or beautiful and he just looks and me and says "eh". lol. But if the woman was flirting with him, I would be jealous .... I would be even more jealous if he flirted back! That has never happened and hopefully it doesn't. Jealousy is a consuming thing! •¤•Good Luck•¤•
• Philippines
9 Feb 08
"Jealousy is a consuminng thing" very well said indeed well at some point when we realize that our man is going beyond the limit we can't help jealousy though.
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@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
3 Feb 08
Of course, I'd feel insecure if myman would stare at a beautiful obviously. A galce should have been enough because for me, a stare is an impolite gesture not just to the woman she is staring at but to me he is with.
• Philippines
4 Feb 08
yes i have the same feeling too... strange as it may seem whenever someone stares at me i'd feel like i'm being stripped down off my clothes it's very degrading.
• United States
2 Feb 08
Nah it doesn't bother me at all. Looking is no big deal. I even point out the really pretty girls to my man. It's only natural to look. I look at other men. So to think that my man wasn't looking at other women would be absurd.
• Philippines
2 Feb 08
I do point out pretty girls sometimes too, they easily catch my attention but sometimes I don't know my mind wanders a lot like I would think my man has a desire to do something to a pretty woman.
• United States
2 Feb 08
I always try to catch my husband staring at women. Today we were in the car, I was driving, and saw this skinny, attractive woman running by the beach. I stared at my husband trying to catch him looking at her, but he didn't. It's like I want to be jelous of him looking at women, but I can't catch him. I even tried to trick him into saying he looked at her, but he never faultered. I guess I have a really good man. He doesn't even get excited when there are half naked women on movies.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
20 Mar 08
I am usually VERY jealous about this, and I am honest with my man about it. Luckily, I have a good man and he doesn't do this very often at all, and I do truly know that he only wants me. :)